It's really messing her up and it's hurting me too. What can we do to get her over the ex, so me and her can be happy together? I'm trying to give her space but I miss her, I just want her to forget about the ex and be mine. What can I do?
2006-12-17 00:34:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anon-y-mouse 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
she needs to get over her ex to move on if not then she can't move on and she will be stuck with her memory and what happened in the past. she needs to move on i suggest you take her and have a fun time with her so she will remember you not her
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2006-12-18 00:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Gudluk! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is why is she still with her ex? Also why did she and her ex become ex-lovers (what was the reason for their breakup?) Sweetie most likely it's not you she obiviously has not got over her ex so maybe it will be best if you try to cool it with her until she finds out what she really wants. that way she will have an even chance to choose you or her ex. I know where you're coming from because I once had a girlfriend with an ex who abused her. to make a story short after she cried on my shoulder about how her ex abused her she went back to her ex and I ended up getting hurt. Mostly because I couldn't understand why she would go back with someone that hurt her and she had me who loved her so much. The point is some girls don't know what they want right then so maybe if you gave them space and let them decide maybe it will work out. I hope it turns out well
good luck
2006-12-17 09:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is the one that needs to decide who she wants to be with. If she's getting over her ex, she is doing so at her own pace and the fact that u are giving her the time that she needs to do that is a good thing but you cant rush her.
She will obviously be on the rebound and I would tread very carefully because you might be the one she rebounds with. She will come round in her own time and if she doesn't then you must just get over it and look elsewhere for love.
2006-12-17 08:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hasnt got over her yet, until she does, she cant move on, and if she really loved u she would be with u and her ex wouldnt been anything, ur been played, move on, like life does or u will only get hurt even more later on
2006-12-17 08:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by a m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but move on she is playing u she needs to move on from her ex but can only do it in her own time find someone who can give u the love and commitment u are looking for
2006-12-17 15:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by lindsey c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything about her. Try to move on with your own life. She hasn't let go yet. You are wasting your time, unless you decide to wait it out, in which you may never win.
2006-12-17 08:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hey Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋