2006-12-17 00:04:04 · 25 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no.. he need to fix himself first before he can fix his marriage
2006-12-17 00:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to fix your marriage why did you cheat on your wife to start with? If you want to fix it first your wife will have to forgive you and you both need councelling. Make sure you leave your mistress first!! Don't have anything else to do with her,not even a single call. Be honest to your wife !! Never cheat on her again and always let you wife know what you are doing and where you are at all times until she can regain her trust in you again. This will only happen if she can continue this marriage with you knowing what you have done to her. Think with your head next time and not with your ****. But if you are asking if you can fix your marriage while you have a mistress then the answer is NO!!
2006-12-17 08:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he has already lost trust from his wife.This is something that will never return. If she doesn't know, it will eat at you till you are ill. Then you will make up some lame excuse to divorce her thinking that this will fix your problem, and this is a problem. If you are contemplating getting one that has been flirting with you, remember the consequences. You are going to need a second job to supplement the enormous amount she will be taking out in alimony payments, and the courts HATE cheaters! If you have kids, tack on more for child support, cheaters don't get the kids, sorry! Then of course there is the new fling.....You'll find the grass really isn't greener on the other side of the fence, in fact it's poisoned!
2006-12-17 08:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what u want to fix about ur marriage...if u have a mistress, i would tend to think it's about sex or lack thereof in your marriage...if that is the case, keep boinkin your mistress and you won't have a marriage to worry about. Talk with ur wife, u are not having ur needs met(sexually as well as emotionally)chances are, she isn't that happy either!!
2006-12-17 08:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by nh_lady_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if his wife has her head in the sand and does not mind your cheating.I don't understand people that cheat how can you tell 2 different people that you love them and want to be with them.Tell her about the mistress and let her decide your fate.Hopefully she will find someone who will treat her like a real person becaus what you are doing to her is the worse feeling a person can have.Hopefully she can return the favor to you someday
2006-12-17 08:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if the man had thought about his marriage first.....there would be no mistress.
2006-12-17 12:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lovinlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistress is probably the reason the marriage needs fixin. Try giving your wife everything you have and not sharing yourself with another woman.
2006-12-17 08:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by MeToo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After you get rid of the mistress you MIGHT be able too..Only if your wife is willing to help fix it!
2006-12-17 09:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...get rid of the mistress
2006-12-17 08:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless he gets rid of the mistress.
2006-12-17 08:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man will cross the line he is in big trouble havin a mistress will make things worse
2006-12-17 08:10:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋