waiting around for me?
I have a boyfriend, but this another guy who came into my life a few months ago has made me confused. We work together and seem that the chemistry is out there. I have been up front with him about my BF situation, but he said he doesn't care. He will make me leave mh BF to be with him. I know we have this sextual tension going on, but I have put him off telling him that I cannot do it now since I'm involved with someone, which he is cool with it. This guy usually calls me, text me everyday.
Until a few days ago, he seems to distance himself a bit. He doesn't call anymore and doesn't seem the same. I found out from him that he went out with a girl last week. Anyway, last night, our group of friends went out, he told me he would be there, but never shown up. I tried to call him, but no answer. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it or just let it go? Is he just sick of waiting or what?
2006-12-16 22:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I post this Q here, not in relationship cat, because I wanna hear what others think about it in general. Thanks!
2006-12-16 22:41:04 · update #1
its not worth exchanging your boyfriend with just this new guy...
well, guys do that to get attention or even get lucky with you...
don't let your guard down...
2006-12-17 01:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by matt B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any reason he shouldn't go out with someone else if you told him you aren't interested. He could of course, be trying to make you jealous.
You on the other hand need to address this situation. If you are interested in this other guy, then you need to break up with your boyfriend before you end up breaking his heart. You are borderline cheating as it is.
If new and exciting is what you want, go for it, but please do the decent thing and let your boyfriend go first. Good luck.
2006-12-17 06:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do I keep doing this to myself. she is involved with someone else. but she shows an interest in me.
god how I know how he feels
then again she flirts with any guy who looks at her. what kind of fool am I, to keep telling her how I feel about her, why does she keep me hanging. this is insane. Caring for someone that doesn't seem to know what she wants. why would she be any different if she was with me.
give you any insight.
2006-12-17 06:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LET GO OF HIM....you should not be the first one to make a move.
2006-12-17 06:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go if you love your boyfriend
2006-12-17 06:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he has moved on theres no point waiting around for something you can't have,but why not speak to him about it at least then you'll know where you stand.
2006-12-17 06:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
let go. now. lls
2006-12-17 07:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by charles d 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Confront your boyfriend tell him wtf, you know there's no use wasting each others time playing games.
2006-12-17 07:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋