my sister has been married for 12years she hates her husband , he is not so nice ,3 years ago she ran away with a guy and no one knew where she was she left her home and 2 kids , she ran away to another country , we manged to get her back and she did go back to her husband, now she left him again and staying with dad in his home, she has been having a side relationship with some young man , this man called me to tell me that he is not intersted in her and she keep on calling him and he asked me to help him , not sure what to do any more and what is the best for this girl , she has 2 kids 9 and 7 years old , she is a house wife . Dad asked me if she could stay in my place .
what do you think the best thing i can do since i am her older brother.
thanks .
2006-12-16 22:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Ardin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pay for the ******* divorce. That's what.
2006-12-16 22:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ooopsssssss! ....she hates her husband , he is not so nice ....OK, i can see that, but, why is he not so nice !!! and here you go: 3 years ago she ran away with a guy and no one knew where she was she left her home and 2 kids , she ran away to another country. I was wondering why her husband is not so nice!!!
One moment please. her kids are 9 and 7 now , but 3 yrs ago they were 6 and 4 right? OK.......we manged to get her back and she did go back to her husband, now she left him again and staying with dad in his home, she has been having a side relationship with some young man ,(the younger the carrot, the older the hen, the better the soup) this man called me to tell me that he is not intersted in her and she keep on calling him and he asked me to help him ..(That's harrasment/stalking) not sure what to do any more and what is the best for this girl .....Are you nuts? WHY AREN'T YOU CONCERNED MORE ABOUT THE KIDS?....and you didn't say where wore the kids during the over sea affair !!!................
she has been having a side relationship with some young man , this man called me to tell me that he is not intersted in her....Enough, enough, enough I'm feeling sick alredy.
Dad asked me if she could stay in my place....See dad has brains....she was there for a while, dad got sick and tired, and now wants to dump her to you ....BOY LET HER in your place. couse this story can't stop here....
she is a house wife .- Ha, ha, ha, ha , a house wife? (What about the kids? who takes care of the kids? maybe the ..."not so nice father"......) Dad asked me if she could stay in my place .(Dad is right...get your a$$ outtahere!)
what do you think the best thing i can do since i am her older brother.
......Dear Older BROTHER.....first of all you have to wisen up!
2006-12-17 07:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she is on her own. Maybe her husband has a reason to be "not nice" to her if she keeps running off with other guys. She is a s1ut and you and your dad aren't helping things by getting in the middle. Be a friend to the husband and tell her she is on her own until she gets her head out of her a$$ and deals with things properly... Divorce or whatever. She is hurting those kids more than anything.
2006-12-17 06:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow her to stay with you for a limited time (30-60 days) that should be enough time to ge a job and get her "affairs" in order. after she is working, loan her money for apartment. setthe ground rules first. good luck.
2006-12-17 06:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋