actually whenever i say my hubby that i will leave from ur life he says that i dont care. i love him so much but he is very practical. he loves his work more than me so he has no time. what should i do? i cant live without him, but also i cant see his neglaction for me. what should i do? should i go away from his life?
2006-12-16 21:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by kashish d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, the hobby thing is a great idea. I used to think I couldn't live without my partner, but I realized I just had too much time on my hands...maybe I was a little too co-dependent. You need to make more friends. You shouldn't have to try to find ways to make someone care about you more. I am pretty sure he cares about you, but he is taking you for granted. You just seem to be the one who needs him more than he needs you. I would have a little space away from him and meet other people (friends) and then he will realize he misses you. Also, you can always live without someone. People come and go in your life and in the end you will always have your self.
2006-12-16 22:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why could you desire to do that? If you attempt to suffocate him - he'll keep away up to viable. Both of you'll have a few freedom from the apartment and every different - newly married or no longer. Either reconsider this or holiday his legs. That must preserve him at house for no less than 2 months ;-)
2016-09-03 17:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too demanding!! Now just becouse you are newly married, the world does not revolve around you!!! Was he jobless during the courtship? ""he loves his work more than me so he has no time. what should i do?"" - Do you expect parity or even more?.....it's very simple, 8 hrs at work, one hr forth, one hr back, that makes 10 hrs (when OT requested, numbers go up, as well as the pay check he brings home) Now, if you expect him to love you more than his work, he suppose to spend more time w/you than at his job. Right? So I give you one hr X-tra just to make you feel more important than his job. That makes 11 hrs, right? Now 11 hrs + 10 hrs = ? How many hrs are there in a day? ........................GET YOURSELF A "J O B"
2006-12-16 22:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.that's a hard question.
1.Go find hobbies that will give you somehting else to do.
2.See if he misses you.You have to go be away before he can miss you.
3.Tell him how you feel.
4.Get counselling.
5.Or leave if you are abused.
2006-12-16 21:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously he doesnt love u enough if he doesnt wanna give u some time ..
you can leave him, see if he comes after u ! if he does thats means he is just tied up at work and needs to work, but he truely luvs u ! if he doesnt then u have freed urself !
2006-12-16 21:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋