2006-12-16 21:19:55 · 13 answers · asked by Mat D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
what makes it feel very good is because it is forbidden,you do it secretly.you are more open and liberal with that person cos there is the thrill,fun,excitement,fear that you might be discovered.you feel like a child whose parents not allowing you to date,but you go against their rules....plus the person gives you more attention ,there is more passion,but eventually just like your marriage you will be bored with the routine,the set up,and you will look for someone else,a new one....
2006-12-16 21:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first a person has to be having sex within their marriage. Most men I have met over the past 51 years describe their marriages as without sex, or very little of it.
2006-12-16 21:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married couples told me that sex in marriage is so much better 'coz you don't have guilt feelings after. But I'm not married yet so I don't really know. Do what works for you, I guess. =)
2006-12-16 22:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sherbet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make sense to me actually because in marriage you're trying to like hold it down... like it's too official and doesn't have enough of that 'edge' to it anymore, you know? Although I know plenty of couples that don't let morals or tradition get in the way of having some naughty fun.
2006-12-16 21:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that once you get married you are to be active with that person and,that person alone.no outsiders for any reason in the bedroom.I also consider that if you are in a relationship with someone the same rule also stands.if you are a swinging single have all the cake you want and eat it too.I have never had casual relations with anyone.call me very old fashioned but these are my life rules and may not apply to everybody.good luck..............Freddy...........
2006-12-16 22:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by freddelorme35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is not carefree cause you'll be worried all the time does anybody know, did anyone see me. Plus you'll suffer guilty conscience too, most of cheaters do. But still forbidden fruit is more tempting and more exciting.
2006-12-16 22:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of hallway sex?
When you walk past each other in the hallway and spit F@*#K Y@U! At each other!
Only takes a year!
I joke! I think it is up to you how good it is.
2006-12-16 21:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Whava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic principal about this is: There is always the first time.
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2006-12-17 20:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by sam s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the jerk enjoys cheating on their spouse to them its great but the truth is it's painful for that spouse to find out.
2006-12-16 22:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Luv J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋