Since breaking up with my boyfriend all I can think about is the comfort I'm missing. Being in his arms. And just the whole feeling of a man, God I miss it. I feel vulnerable because I had put 3 years of loyal service into him. Ugh, I miss having that. Any tips to stop this?
2006-12-16 21:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey. I went to UF. We're practically cousins! Just kidding. Break-ups are tough. You must have had your reasons. I'm sure they were good ones. Sometimes the best thing to do is not always the easiest thing. Gainesville drove me crazy in the end. One day, I decided to move out west to get away from it all. Needed a clean break, just to leave it all behind. So, without telling a single person, I packed up and left. It was hard (there was even a girl involved) but it was the best thing for me to do.
To get your mind off of it, I suggest throwing yourself into your school work, finding a hobby (does the astronomy dept still set up telescopes? Have you ever seen saturn in a telescope?, exercise (not that you need it), creating a website, writing, painting, something you haven't tried before), or rocking out at Common Grounds. I used to hang there when it was at a hole in the wall on University. I was just reading about it on the internet. It's on 2nd ave now, where the covered dish used to be. Good times!
Also, I find it pretty funny that most responses to your question were from dudes, who probably have the least useful things to say about what you're going through. I guess I'm just adding to that list. I just wanted to say hello to a fellow gator.
Anyhow, hope this helps. Have fun in gainesville for me!
2006-12-19 18:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by vidigod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that getting another man, or going back to the looser you dumped would stop you from being lonesome for a man, and would provide you with the physical comfort of being in a man's arms.
All the same, you're on the rebound right now, and these sort of relationships don't usually work out. Try taking a few months to get over him, and think over things about the relationship. What you did like, what you didn't like, what worked for you, what worked for him, and what worked for both of you. You can then have a better idea as to what you're looking for from your man, and how you can get it.
If you don't want to wait, I might suggest you look into the wild anonymous dating scene, or find yourself a male escort. Most professionals charge a hefty sum, but folks like me would gladly provide you with these services in exchange for room and board, and possibly transportation to your neck of the woods if you live outside of CA. But as I said, that sort of thing doesn't usually work out very well.
2006-12-19 15:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is go find another man. You broke up for a reason. Either way you learned something. Take that with you. Use it to pick out another guy' Better than the last one. P.S. Looked at your 360. Your very pretty. You will not have a problem finding a man that will treat you right.
2006-12-17 05:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends, entertain yourself, but mainly just get out in public. Don't sit at home and think about what you're missing. Go out and see all the things that could be.
2006-12-17 05:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by unclebirchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get yourself up and outta there! You deserve a real man. You got what it takes and not alota time to go and get it.
plan a nite out with the girls and make it your business to get over him a s a p.
Lifes too short to be miserable.
2006-12-17 06:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by saynhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email helloterrydale@yahoo.ca and I'll do my best to solve your problem!
2006-12-17 05:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋