Why do people that have little kids/ brats that the can't control subject them to people out in public?

Question

When I see a parent that lets their little clone of them self's just scream and tear through stores,Restaurants etc....How can parents be so selfish to think that people like loud noise pollution their are noise laws for a reason..........I always speak my mind and make the brain dead parents feel like they would rather die than to have to hear someone like me to say it like it is ,....Most parents I have confronted have just turned beet red and cowered away
the other day the customers in the store applauded when the parents left the store with their noise polluter S H I T diaper where kick out of store
People are not going to stand for this behavior and are starting to ban bad parents /kids from their stores etc ......

look in France and China the kids their act better than most adults in the West.....

Answer 1

I agree.If they can't control them let them get a babysitter if they will not watch them or make them behave.My dad had a woodshed so I learned to be polite and keep my hands in my pockets and not asking for everything in the store.Those people are the type who buy them too much candy and pay for dentist.Alot are on welfare and that care comes out of the taxpayers pockets.

Answer 2

A baby is one thing, you cannot control a baby's crying OR messing in a diaper, so how anyone would get upset about THAT I don't understand. But, kids who are allowed to run all over the place out of control ARE a problem. How do these kids learn how to behave if good old mom and dad are either too lazy too indifferent to teach them anything? Then you have the parents who think that everyone is looking at their "little darlings" through the same eyes as Mom and dad are...."aren't they cute??" . WRONG! You are raising brats who will grow up to be obnoxious, spoiled, selfish, ill mannered burdens on society, who will moan at every "injustice" they suffer. .I always wonder how these kids do in school if they get disciplined? They obviously have not been disciplined by their parents, so how do they handle that? Do your kids a favor MOM and DAD and TEACH them right from wrong, and teach them consequences and respect and someday they may even thank you for it. I know I will.

Answer 3

I see where your irritation lies but it seems you have a misconception that misbehaving kids all have bad parents. Although we use sayings like "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" really, children aren't an entire reflection of their parents. They are separate people. And you don't know the full situation. The parents may very well try to discipline their child but unless you have kids yourself, then you will realize its hard for them just to listen and to have full control to get them to do what we want and what is right. It's already hard for parents that doubt themselves everyday wondering if they are doing the best possible things for their kids and whether they are bringing them up in the right way to have morals and values and make them a valid member of society. I say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. I think you should show abit more compassion and patience with these struggling parents. And i don't know whether you think being the better person is embarrassing these parents, but in reality how are your actions benefiting at all the situation. Don't get me wrong i understand where you are coming from but its important that in life we don't just see things from one perspective-in this case the irritated passer-by who hasn't had to live a moment in those peoples family.

Answer 4

They are just morons. But honestly I have been to China, Mexico, Canada, and so forth. I know people from many parts of Europe. The kids pretty much act the same in every country. Yes they do that crap in China as well. The worst appears to be Mexico.

The behavior issue is why I stay away from Wal-Mart, and why I don’t go to most malls. I just can’t take it any more.

Answer 5

human beings will insist on taking small little ones out at the same time as they're drained. are you able to imagine being dragged round, strapped in, moist, chilly, drained and hungry, having all sorts of effective issues on your face that you cant attain and communicate to, and having to take a seat that way for hours? identity be screaming too. Older little ones favor to no longer be spoiled at the same time as theyre taken out. That way, they're going to recognize no longer to scream and throw tantrums and demand issues. in case you supply in some cases to close a baby up they're going to keep asking and push the limitations continuously to get what they opt for. Its the same with ignoring undesirable behaviours- or no longer disciplining with any style of regularity and structure. Its rather a lot so basic as that.

Answer 6

Back in the day our parents would beat our behind, we would still respect them. Now the child can call 911. That is wrong, some children play on it. We have to start when they are young. Teach them right from wrong. Correct them at an early age. When you do not correct your children you are creating bad behavior. Some parents want to give their children everything. We have to teach them to be able to take care of their selves.

Answer 7

well since the wonderful child care specialists have determined that disciplining a child should not include gettin a slap on the face or a spanking for misbehaving, why would parents do something like spank their kids in public when they act like brats.
i was raised to behave myself, but most of the kids i see today would report their parents for child abuse for even looking at them wrong. i am a full beleiver that if you spare the rod, you spoil the brat.

Answer 8

you obviously don't have kids. Most kids play up, my kids play up from time to time but they are kids, they are meant to have fun when they are'nt having fun they dicide to play up no parent knows when this is going to happen .They may have left home with the little angles,I call it the dr jekyl mr hyde syndrome. I must say i hope you dont run into my husband when our kids start to play up and you dicide to speak your mind as most perants are not brain dead! And of course since we are not allowed to discipline them it does make it difficult.

Answer 9

I guess that you were the perfect baby who never shat in your diapers. I also suspect that your intolerance far exceeds you purity of heart. have a wonderful holiday season.
peace on you.

Answer 10

I am definately with you on this one!