Some seem to think that just because you broke up with or divorced a person that you are a man basher or woman hater. I'm not in that ' club ' of ex's. Did not like that divorce happened, yet I'm much more at peace in my life now. Any other positive minded ex's out here that still adore, value and treasure men / women ?
2006-12-16 20:07:34 · 6 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
absolutely! None of us ever marries w/ the intention of ever being divorced and sometimes things simply do not work out. While it often takes awhile to "get over" the trauma of it, most people do end up liking themselves better. This is a healthy response.
2006-12-16 20:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I love your attitude... I'm not an ex, but my husband is... His ex-wife would have sex with his THEN friends while he slept in the other room and their daughter played in her room... AND she got physical custody of their girl... but he's healed pretty good and we get to see his girl from time to time... we're married and have a son so I think it's definitely possible to get over the anger and loss... and move on. It's like you said... a better place of peace and I don't know... I've never had a boyfriend before him and he's 6 years older... so I don't know about dating or break ups.. but he seems like a pretty legit and loving person despite what he's been through. So, yes!!! It's possible!!!
2006-12-17 04:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mexi Poff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(*shrug*) I was angry for a couple of years, but not at men. I was angry at myself for being such a chump and staying in it as long as I did.
Best part of my marriage was the divorce. (*chuckle*) I never stopped liking men because I married one of the "bad ones".
I did take away a much deeper appreciation for myself. I discovered I'm pretty amazing, and can do just about anything. Always good to know.
2006-12-17 09:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people got divorced because they ador men or women.
2006-12-17 04:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by compas98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm divorced and healed, but women hate me.
2006-12-17 04:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you on your mature, positive outlook.
2006-12-17 04:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋