there is a co-worker of mine who is openly gay, she has a great personality and we get along great... so great one night we went drinking, came home together, layed down in bed together, then woke up in the morning and had sex together... i was the only guy she's been with in 5 years. It didn't change anything between us (told you she had a great personality).. but my question is if i try to make something out of 'us'.. do i stand a chance?
2006-12-16 19:57:00 · 9 answers · asked by all unknowing 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you really care for her. Solve the problem have a sex change
2006-12-16 23:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. She is bisexual. Now I was in love with a lesbian, a true lesbian. This girl would never have any sex at anytime with any man. And I guess by the time she was 24, she probably knew it but would not say it to me. I looked back and figured it out. I do not think it is wrong. They cannot help it, if they are a true gay person. I was 27 and she was 26 and still invited to the city where she lived. I slept on the couch. This girl is a lipstick lesbian. Anyway, those few days, I hung around the pool reading, while her many friends played tennis. Ha Ha. That was the last time i was time on her. All we ever did was kiss. She was so beautiful, I was willing to wait, while I was dating other girls
2006-12-16 23:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should tell you absolutely no. But I know a woman who was 100% lesbian for all of her adult life--and fell in love, is happily married to a guy (to the shock and surprise of everyone)-- isfaithful and is a Mom of three.
Do not tell this to Jerry Fallwell and the restoration nutcases. It had nothing to do with the intervention of God.
So I guess there is a chance--but this is a real strange example.
However, the very fact she had sex with you is indicative she is bi. Most lesbians would not do that (the above mentioned excepted--but then I guess she was really bi). So perhaps. You need to talk to her about it and be very open. Prepare to be disappointed. But.........
2006-12-16 20:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*sigh*
the question that men have been asking for years, "can i turn a lesbian striaght again"? Its a question of many variables, did she enjoy the sex, your company, can you live with her have been being a lesbian? If it didnt change anything, then idk its even harder, but if she slept with you she is not a lesbian, she is bi-sexual in truth. You have a chance, ask her out to drinks again, maybe to a club, try a date you would do with any other girl, she might actually warm up to the fact that she likes you, you never know. It sounds like you do, but dont put ALL your stock in it, dont get hurt if you get shot down, you may even get alittle more sex, who knows, keep any open mind
good luck
2006-12-16 20:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Fatman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful with your feelings! How are you going to feel if you see her with another woman? You would probably feel the same if you saw her with another man. Take it VERY SLOW! And most importantly...communicate with her! Good luck!
2006-12-16 20:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by drew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-17 20:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by sam s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all sure hope so! just show respect to her choices and make her feel how a man can care!
2006-12-16 20:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by manfrmjungle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have a big chance. She's a bi.
2006-12-16 22:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by whitechristmas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not likeky, unless she is actually bi
2006-12-16 20:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋