(men)How you feel if your wife dump u.Would u like to know what actually happen.(women)How about u?
2006-12-16 19:54:32 · 6 answers · asked by gen2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes we getting married with the wrong person but we dont know that untill after few years,when we divorce we do that for a reason not just cause we wanna be free.when we trust someone and that person lie to us it doesnt disevre anything but to be left alone.divorce its not something we like to do,its something we need to do for the childrens sake,and for their happiness..........
2006-12-16 20:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem is our governments and society in general have made it to easy to take the easy way out and just give up.from the society point of view our lack of personal principles,morals and ethics just allows us to just jump into bed with anyone we please whether in a relation ship(which i have not and would not ever do) or not and most ppl just dont have the intestinal fortitude to stick it out and make it work.from the governmental point of view theyv'e made it so as a woman can just pretty well do as they please without any comeback or even proof when they make allegations(whether they are true or not).then on top of that theyv'e made it so a woman can just take you for everything even money you havn't received yet.even a lot of women say how wrong and unfair it is it's gone to far the other way,just like political correctness.i guess the real smart ppl in this world are the blokes that shack up with these woman.unfortunately the ones that end up suffering the most are the woman that try and have a life with these divorced or separated men especially if they have children.and the children always suffer regardless of which way it goes.if society and governments took a different view on marriage and divorce(and infidelity which should carry the death penalty)a lot more ppl would be a lot happier and a lot more marriages would survive.unfortunately we can never do anything about the individuals lack of morals,ethics or principles.
2006-12-17 04:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by BUSHIDO 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a woman who was married 23 years, now peacefully divorced 4 years. Basically, in relation to your question, he changed the agreed rules of our relating. He became rude, condescending, neglectful of our relating, no personal contact . . . feel he was having an affair. . . After me trying to 'fix' it for 3 years, I called it done. No ' dumping ' was done, we were of value, he changed the rules, I ended an unhealthy environment of relating, divorce occurred, we went on with our lives. No woe is me stories here. I mourned the loss, healed, and life if good again.
2006-12-17 04:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one LIKES to get divorced. but who wants to stay in a bad marrige?
I believe marrige SHOULD be forever. but unfortunatly alot of people ontodays world want out as soo as things start to go bad and instead of sticking around and commiting themselves to the relationship they bail and run rather than face the problem and do something about it. Society has made it too east to get divorced.
2006-12-17 03:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Lizzard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not that they like to; they just committed too early and realized they made a mistake after being well into the relationship. It happens.
2006-12-17 03:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lack of commitment
2006-12-17 03:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by ubuntu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋