What if you are afraid to tell someone that you have feelings for them?

Answer 1

We fear rejection, loss, embarrassment, or failure.
While most people would advise you to tell your feelings openly, I advise against it.
I will probably be the only one with this advice.

I'm assuming your feelings are for a girl.

As a woman, I'll confide that we like to play the game of courtship, mystery and uncertainty. Many girls are turned off by blatant professions of love.

GIRLS LOVE THE GAME- AND THE CHASE!
The game is intriguing. The rules always change.

If you tell her your feelings, the game is over.
She doesn't need to try, in order to attract you. She already has you.
What fun is that?

Instead, why not win her? Woo her! Excite and delight her with your romantic charm. Always leave a little uncertainty. Make her pursue you too.
Make her work a little to get you. It's not always wise to chase the woman. Make the woman chase you. It's easier.
Don't you love and hate thinking about her at the same time?
She secretly wants to feel the same about you.

Girls hate when a guy follows them around saying, "I love you. I love you. I love you." all the time. They love to wonder, guess, pine-away, distress, day-dream, gossip with their girlfriends, watch you secretly, and much more. If you tell your feelings, you rob her of all that heartbreak, misery, and insecurity that she loves so much.

Let there be a little mystery. You can display your interest without words. Speak with your eyes. It really works!
She'll love it.

Good Luck
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Answer 2

Are you really afraid or just shy? If your afraid, let your feelings go.... she's probably a bully, now if your somewhat shy - say hello and ask her what she's been up to; her plans for 2007; where she went to high school. Do you think she likes you too? If she seems receptive to your questions, ask her if she'd like to meet for lunch, coffee or ice-cream. 2007 might just be a good year for you!!! Good Luck.
That should break the ice.

Answer 3

Being afraid to express yourself, means you depend too much on expectations. You want so much to get accepted that you can:t even think of getting a rejection. Do not be afraid to hear "No", to see people go, people who have other priorities. This is life. Express your feelings and be prepared to get either accepted or rejected. Either case, you play with 50% chances.

Answer 4

hear i became there as quickly as different than it became with a guy. there's no injury in telling them the way you experience. in simple terms tell them in person and privatly yet do it easly if she doesnt experience the comparable then atleast you purchased what you had to assert off your chest. extremely even nevertheless you dont comprehend how she feels approximately you. she would have the comparable emotions you wont comprehend till ultimately you ask. that guy i advised you approximately we've been together now 2yrs. stable success!!!

Answer 5

You are sharing your fear with the whole world except with the person concerned. The fear of being rejected is normal, there is nothing wrong with it or to be ashamed of. Go for it and try. You have nothing to lose. You are without that person anyway. So nothing will change in case you were rejected. Let that person decide for herself and not u on her behalf. Besides, its better to try and fail then spend the rest of your life wishing that you had tried.

Answer 6

It's a self defense mechanism. I'm assuming you are friends with her somewhat? I mean, it's not like you have feelings for Angelina Jolie right?

Women aren't stupid. We know when a guy has feelings for us. If she's not sending you signals that she's open to your feelings, then of course you are going to be scared. No one likes rejection. Keep being friends with her. She'll send you some signs if she cares for you as more then a friend.

Answer 7

If You let your fear intimidate you from telling someone that you have feelings for them, You might miss spending your life with someone that will make you happy. Don't lose the opportunity. Because you fear rejection.

Answer 8

It's very common to be afraid to tell someone you like them. But seriously, what have you got to lose? Just tell her you like her, and if she likes you too then awesome, and if not, oh well.

Answer 9

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NEVER SAY TOMORROW ; TOMORROW IS TOOO LATE
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If you're mad with someone, and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it.
Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if u don't, tomorrow can be too late.

If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know... tell her/him.
Maybe today, that person is also in love with you. And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late

If you really want to kiss somebody... kiss her/him.
Maybe that person wants a kiss from you, too. And if you don't kiss her/him today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him.
Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today, tomorrow can be too late

If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it.
Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late

If you really have friends who you appreciate... tell them.
Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late

If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it.
Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, then tomorrow can be too late.

Answer 10

well if you don't tell them that you have feeling for them then how are they going to know, and if you really like that person then you may lose then all together, sometime you just have to bite the bullet and go for it otherwise the opportunity may pass you by
May God bless you and Merry Christmas