You family is your family but so is your husband and allot of times in order to live you have to live where the job takes you ,,,, A job is security as well as financial well being for the both of you and your children if you have any yet ,,,, Jobs just aren't that easy to find anymore,,,, let alone a good job like you've described your husbands to be ,,,, With out a job you aren't going to go anywhere ,,,,, You should feel happy and lucky that he's had a chance at so many opportunities so far ,,,,, Allot of people spend their whole lives with a dead end go no where job with no chance for advancement ,,,,, It would be nice if you could work where your home and family are but your first loyalty is to your husband and his job ,,,, or it should be ,,,, because like I said earlier ,,,,, His job is his and your security ,,,,, Everything you have or ever will have depends on his employment ,,,, Sometimes some sacrifices have to be made in order to just survive ,,,,, But it sound like to me that you'll be living pretty good where you are going or should go ,,,,, As for the your family ,,,, Well theirs always the phone or even the computer and there's always trips to look forward to when you are able to go back home for visits ,,,, They aren't going to vanish just because you have to leave due to job requirements ,,,, And it's not really like you are leaving them anyway ,,,, You just aren't going to be as close to them is all ,,,, But for your husbands sake as well as yours you should try to reconcile these differences ,,,, It's your husband you are living with now not your family ,,,,, He deserves your first allegence ,,,,, Talk it over with your parents or older members of your family and I think you'll find that they will say the same thing I'm saying to you right now ,,,, Allot of people have to move where their job is or takes them all the time ,,,,, You and your husband aren't the only ones that have had to go through this ,,,, And you certainly won't be the last ,,,,, Get as much outside imput as you need but think long and hard about it ,,,, But ultimately the decision is yours ,,,,
2006-12-17 04:53:09
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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