2006-12-16 19:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are not straight and you are not a lesbian.
Love is just a confusing emotion... even Zoophilia loves their pet
and Child Molesters love kids.
Women should be with Men.
Unless you are born with 2 genitals, then you can't produce
an offsprings, they don't have to get marry.
2006-12-16 19:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you have to take a while to think about it on your own. Actually, don't even think about it. Thinking is what gets people all worked up about labels and having to find the exact right label that they fit into.
If you're asking the question it sounds like maybe you've had some feelings for girls your age. It's nothing to freak out about. If you end up being attracted to a girl enough to do something about it then see where it goes. If not that's okay too. Same thing with guys. All that other stuff about labels and stuff can wait till you've figured out what kind of people you really like. Your own personal definition of your sexual orientation doesn't have to be decided on right this second.
That's the other great thing about sexual orientation definitions. You pick 'em, not us. Some women who do some experimenting with girls in their younger years later decide that they want to define themselves as straight. Some women have relationships with mostly women but experiment with a man once or twice and decide that they want to be known as bi, not lesbian. The label you choose is totally up to you. We can't pin one on you, and no one else can either.
So breathe, relax. There are many other things in life to freak out about. This thing... naaah.
2006-12-17 04:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just if your attracted to one sex or the other. do you fantasize about people? if so, what sex are they? and remember, its not just flat out 'gay, straight, or bi' there are areas in between each
for example
1. completely straight
2. all straight but maybe one or two instances of gay thoughts or urges
3. straight but with a little more than just one or two gay thoughts or urges
4. bisexual, equal sexual feeling for both sexes
5. gay with more than a one or two straight thoughts or urges
6. gay with only one or two straight thoughts or urges for someone
7. completely gay
so remember, you dont have to worry about trying to fit yourself into one of those three categories (gay straight or bi), everyones different and you are who you are, whatever you feel is right because its who you are
so try not to worry about labeling what you are, it does not matter, but if you really want to, try and look at the list i just gave, it makes you feel better that there isnt just three categories you a HAVE to fit yourself into
2006-12-17 03:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simple, Would you rather kiss a guys or a girl...seriously. If the answer is both than you like both...big deal...
2006-12-17 03:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by monkeysgirl04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the people you fall in love with? Not want to have sex with, but just to be with and for them to be with you?
2006-12-17 09:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Avalon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-18 04:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by sam s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU GET TURNED ON BY THE PEOPLE OF YOUR SAME SEX YOUR PROBABLY GAY/LESBIAN
2006-12-17 04:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
touch either one of the sex's private part, which makes u feel the excitement?
2006-12-17 03:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by IceღFire Shawn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well.. are u atracted.. to boys. .. or girls... or both.. or if u arent sure.. try them both out! see what u like better
2006-12-17 03:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with my wife and find out...
2006-12-17 03:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by S R369 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋