Openly gay men - how do you feel about guys who are on the down low? Does it bother you that they come to you for sex, and go back to their wives for love and companionship? Or do you like the no-strings-attached sex, with no committment involved?
2006-12-16 19:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think cowardice is a sad excuse cheat on a spouse or to get married. And I'm not at all sure how much gay men married to women actually love their wives either. Sure some do, maybe even most, but do you think straight guys who cheat on their wives still love them. Again I'm sure most do but that doesn't mean it's not sad.
2006-12-17 01:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Avalon 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-30 21:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done reading the book "The Down Low" I believe we live in a society that is so judgemental that they will do anything and everything to stay in the closet, for the fear of not being loved :-( However, for me I do not have casual sex (At ALL) so I wouldnt be with him if all he wanted was sex. Secondly,, its wrong to put you or his wife at risk of STDs...A no strings attached sex brings 15 minutes of fame but a lifetime of shame (the only thing that ryhmed!) NICE Question!@!
2006-12-16 21:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well there's so much homophobia in the black community and in other ethnic minorities, how could we blame them? They already have the pressure and culture baggage of being black in a white man's world. And now to be gay or bisexual in a straight man's world?
But...with that said, there are plenty of gay black men that found the courage to be who they are in public. Look at Karamo on MTV! Mmmm. They're kind of like my role models and heroes, since I'm not black or on the downlow, but I've been with guys that were. (please guys always use protection with these men I know I don't like the AIDS ads and everything but it's very important...)
Peace out.
2006-12-16 21:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I find cheating on one's spouse to be disgusting and would never help a man cheat....whether he has a man OR a woman at home.
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2006-12-17 20:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by sam s 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Love them.
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2006-12-16 19:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tim M 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋