i want to take revange on one of my ex friend,how do i?

Answer 1

Wait till he is in some sort of trouble. Then just go & help him to get rid of the trouble this will be taking revenge that he will never forget & he will really feel sorry for wrong he ever did with you.

Answer 2

I had written an article on forgiveness and many had appreciated the practical points i put into it. Read it and see if it helps---

Of Moving On
“Forgiveness is the peace that come from changing your grievance story.”
Perhaps you have been passed over for a promotion or someone else has taken credit for your work. Perhaps a friend has not rallied around or a loved one has been rude. Perhaps someone has cheated you, accused you or ridiculed you. All these create a feeling of unfairness, humiliation, sadness and anger. Inside, you begin to carry a load that gets heavier every time you are reminded of this pain.
Psychologist Robert Enright says, "Forgiveness is giving up the resentment to which you are entitled, and offering to the persons, who hurt you, friendlier attitudes to which they are not entitled."
Complete forgiveness is rare. You begin to own the right to be upset with a disloyal friend, callous employer or unfaithful spouse. If required you may be civil, kind and even give up the fire of revenge. But to ask you to completely heal the relationship and withdraw all of the painful memory, is not a human possibility. It is difficult to put aside the need for personal power too - the power of being the one who is "right," the power to punish the other and the power of revenge. You blame the person for how you are feeling. It is their action and not your choice of response that you feel is the cause of your anger. You have forgotten that you have a choice as to how you will react.
The greatest source of resistance toward forgiveness is the negative ego, which loves to hold onto a grudge, blocks happiness and peace of mind. Too many try to forgive without releasing their anger. The repressed anger slowly putrefies into resentment and later manifests in stress, ulcers and poor health conditions. It affects the quality of your interaction with others as you distrust, feel prejudiced and fear a repetition.
Get the right perspective on what is happening. Recognize that your primary distress is coming from the pained feelings, memories and physical upset you are suffering now, not what offended you or hurt you two minutes or ten years ago.
Forgiveness does not require reconciliation, offering the other cheek or liking the perpetrator, although that may be a desirable outcome. You do not have to rejoin with ex-lovers, free criminals from prisons, return to old jobs or anything else absurd. You may choose to turn away and move on, permanently or for a period of withdrawal, till such time as the person has a change of heart or you develop the inner resolve not to get affected by any similar occurrence. You may choose to confront the perpetrator and ‘have it out’. Oft times it could be a misunderstanding that gets cleared up. The confrontation should be unheated, non-accusative, and un-abusive and at a time and space that is neutral and calm. Speak of your hurt and allow the other person to explain, apologize or respond. Try to see things from his point of view.
Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, but refusing to dwell on the hurt. It does not mean excusing cruel behavior as acceptable or pretending that it did not hurt, for that would be dishonest. It does not make you weak because it requires personal courage and actually makes you a stronger and better person. It does not require the other to make the first move, admit guilt, repent or seek reconciliation. Forgiveness is for your health, inner peace and future openness to life.
Have you ever walked about with a pebble in your shoe? Would you load your backpack with rocks and go for a stroll on the beach? This unwanted baggage slows down progress, detracts from the job at hand, reduces your enjoyment quotient and erodes the flesh. Harboring resentment or anger does the same to you. Sometimes the other person blithely goes about his living while you fret and fume. You avoid his spaces, plan retaliation, haul up memories that hurt and lose focus. Do not give so much power to anyone else. It is a weakening of self; and those with whom one chooses to remain angry will continue to control one, long after the incident. Why would you want to lessen the quality of your life or perform less than optimum? Why should you get permanently scarred and stunted by the actions of another?

Forgiveness is the key. It is the ‘letting go’, of the need for retaliation, the antipathy and the hurt of being a victim. Letting go of the hold that person has over your happiness. Only you have the power to take control of your life and decide how it should be. Forgiveness allows you to go on with living. It permits you to explore your potential and be the full person that you were meant to be. It empowers you and puts you back in charge of ‘you’.

So go ahead! Try forgiveness!!
Call up that ex-friend, write to an estranged sibling, email your old boss, drop in at your neighbor’s place. You owe yourself a better life!

Answer 3

do u know in shrimad bhagwat gita the god said
that in every body there is two souls one is
jeewatma and another is paramatma
and paramatma is taking into account what u do good and bad to any body
so revenge is like that u taking revenge with the god resides in that person.
so dont be kid
though that god taken something from u are god does not any right to take some thing from u
just spread love and love the nature so beutiful the god made

Answer 4

You get no longer something, She isn't no person for you the 2nd she broke with you and in any different way what i've got faith is you're making her to hate you extra. Dont do the errors what she did. right this moment she could sense that she would be satisfied without you yet a million day she will sense worse that she left you, bu att that element she won't aid you be attentive to that. this is female. flow on.

Answer 5

if u can excuse and be kind enough.. its one kind of taking revance.
U urself are saying is that she is ur ex-friend. how can u take revange on friend ?
We are human beings. not animals. Follow the softway of living. ur B.P. would under ur control.

Is that u still love her ? than u have to get well soon. otherwise...send her getwell soon card.
Decide urself.

Answer 6

Now you take revenge, then they take revenge on you or curse you .... is it all the life is for ! come on ....!! open your eye of happiness and realise your true sweet nature and realise that by taking revenge you are not going to have any PRACTICAL solution for your problems... what all you can get by taking revenge is the illusionary self satisfaction ...

be real, be big, be great ... be an angel to forgive and become the real hero ....

Cheers ... all the best

Answer 7

My answer is DONT! you will be the better person if you prove they are better than they are and walk away with your head held high. This will be revenge enough, showing them up for being bad, while you are good

Answer 8

Don't take revenge! You will experience karma instead of her! But, people are supposed to be friends with each other! Be friends again! Then both of you will be happy again!

Answer 9

Don't do it. Revenge is very damaging to you as well.

I heard this quote yesterday: Getting revenge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick.

Answer 10

hm like my fren would say karmakarma. and it is kinda childish to take revenge...but oh well. no harm telling u. the most hurtful way is to spread gossip and rumors. or build up on stuff they've said and exaggerate it. but reminder. it is reallyreally mean and hurtful. reconsider it.