In high school, the new thing at my school is giving up your virginity. I really wanna save it for marrige. what should i do with the pressure?
2006-12-16 19:12:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
avoid it, tell them your not interested...if they say your "not in," who cares!will you die if you're not one of them? saving it 4 marriage is the best you can do wid it...so stick to the plan and keep it that way...
2006-12-16 19:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Edisben A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's been a long time since "giving up your virginity" was a "new thing" in high school. Probably at least 120 years or so.
If you don't want to have sex, then don't. Simple rule. If you do, then you should. I'd recommend waiting at least a little while, though. If ALL of your friends are telling you that they are no longer virgins, then at least SOME of your friends are lying. Howsabout waiting until you are at least 16 before making this decision, as a personal favour to an old Buddhist.......??
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-16 19:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is, don't give it up to pressure. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean it's the right thing for you to do. You seem to value your virginity and want to save it for someone special and i think that is a good thing. Though a lot of teenager say that they want to wait til marriage, most of them don't. But that's not bad, because it's all matter of when you're ready. When i was 14 i wanted to save it til marriage too, but i lost it to my boyfriend when i was almost 18. It's been 5 years and we're still together. So wut i'm sayin is, it's your choice, but whatever decision you make, make sure it's not because you're going along with everyone else just to fit in. As you get older, you're gonna NOT want to fit in.
2006-12-16 19:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beleive me hun... i gave it up when i was 14, too. there is nothing i would do to take back that night. giving it up to a guy you'll never see, a guy who never cared for you, probably doesn't even know your last name...that stuff is way too overrated. if you want to save it for marriage, then do so. you will gain respect and gain a good reputation. don't let any peer pressure get in the way. you have no idea how special it will be on your wedding night, letting your husband teach you things like that..it's very exciting!!! don't let a HIGHSCHOOL boy take all that away from you.
2006-12-16 19:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. No matter how many of your friends are bragging about losing their virginity, stay cool and dont give into peer pressure. You will all grow up and soon they will realize how much they wish they had waited. If anyone gives you a hard time and tells you to go have sex, you can just casually tell them something like "none of the guys here are good enough for me, or worth my time." you dont have to tell them youre waiting for marriage, its a private decision. but i respect you for that.
2006-12-16 19:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep it.. YOu do not have to do what the girl does in they school.. they forget most all girl in school who lost they virginity end up having baby at young age.. And our tax money for teenager with baby or low income..and they get food stamp because they had kid at young age......There should be no presure.. enjoy high school.. And you do not have to think of how other think of you.. just be yourself...
2006-12-16 19:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore these people who are pressureing you its your body no one has the right to make you do things you dont want to do. I kept mine untill I got married and have never regreted it. have a good life.
2006-12-16 19:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by nicegillis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the pressure- and alot of them lie about it to fit in- they will have regrets for doing it- and you will be glad you waited- D
2006-12-16 19:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the PRO !! lisa @ yahoo answers
2006-12-16 19:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋