If a heterosexual male recieves a b***job from a homosexual, is the hetero considered bi or gay?

Question

I was complaining to my gay friend that I haven't had a decent b***job in a long time. So he offered to do it. He was better than a woman.

Answer 1

I'm going to say bi-curious.

You're going through a patch of wondering what your sexuality is and you're experimenting, nothing wrong with that, it will settle down in time and you'll know what it is.

And of course gay guys give the best head, you don't see many women with penises so how are they supposed to know what it feels like?

Answer 2

This is what I mean, all humans are multisexual...and labels only seek to polarize and separate us instead of bringing us together. You're not gay per se (only you can answer that one), but there has to be something to it don't you think if you can get pleasure. A mouth is a mouth right?

That's why there's no such thing as true heterosexuality or true homosexuality. However, sexualty is really more hard-wired in the brain and has little to do with behaviors.

Answer 3

You're gay/bisexual if you like the idea of a man performing fellatio on you or get turned on by men, their bodies, gay sex, etc..

If you have to close your eyes and imagine a woman doing the sucking, or concentrate on it not being a man, and just a warm, wet mouth, then you aren't bi or gay, but I'd caution that it isn't something the average heterosexual man does- getting bj's from other men.

Answer 4

I think all kinds of people sexually-identify a certain way whether or not their actual sexual practices match that label. The most common would be those who identify as heterosexual for social reasons (heterosexual privilege) but are actually bisexual or even homosexual in their sex lives. I think it's cool you are open to experimenting with a friend. Guys would probably know better what feels the best in a bj for obvious reasons.

Answer 5

Actually, you are probably bisexual.

I'm straight and, although I've heard that men give better oral than women (supposedly men are more willing to deep throat it and are less likely to gag) I still prefer women.

I'd rather have a bare breasted babe go down on me, instead of some dude with a 5 o'clock shadow - but that's just me!

If you can actually get turned on by another dude giving you a bj, you might have some bisexual tendencies.

Answer 6

I think that if you feel the need to place a label on yourself, thats something you need to think about. If you are still attracted to woman, then it's inaccurate to consider yourself gay/homosexual.

I'm sure others would debate what I'm going to say, but a once off encounter doesn't necessarily make you bisexual either - despite a same sex encounter, you could still internally identify as heterosexual.

In the end, it's down to what attracts you, what you desire, and what you want in the future as to how you classify your sexual orientation.

Answer 7

Depends on what they prefer. Men only - gay, women only - hetero, both - bi..where's the confusion? Were you just wanting to brag that you got one from a gay guy or something??

Answer 8

There's common myths out there that you're only gay if you receive.

However, you're not gay unless you have an attraction for men lasting longer than 6 months I believe. Experimentation will not make one gay.

Answer 9

It would make you considered bi, but hell I am gay and if I sucked off a straight friend it would always remain our secret, may want him to return so I won't do anything to make him uncomfortable.

Answer 10

Some, women. Not better then all.. And no you aren't gay or bi less you wanna be... It's up to you. Although, if you liked it that much maybe you are a homo and will soon be better than "a woman" yourself.