this is a personal question but perhaps a stranger can help me?........how do you get over your soul-mate?

Answer 1

stop believing in soul :)

Answer 2

It's difficult and painful to try to get over someone you loved and was the centre of your world for any length of time, especially if they ended the relationship.

I firmly believe that there is not just one person out there for us but that we have many, many soul mates, who are people that are familiar to us from having experienced many lifetimes with before. Soul mates can be best friends, lovers, siblings, parents, coworkers and even perfect strangers. Your taxi driver or someone you meet on vacation can be a soul mate. Someone you are destined to meet for some reason.

I think understanding that there are many, many people that we are capable of loving in the world makes the end of a recent love relationship seem a little less like the end of the world.

The pain you feel from the end of any relationship, particularly a romantic one where you were in love, is very normal and the only way to get over it is with time. It sucks, but time does heal. Time and finding a new love interest (not right away) will make you feel better. There are lots of good people out there looking for a good person like you, for someone with your particular qualities and you will meet another of them eventually. In the meantime, keep yourself busy with family and friends and interests of your own. Take up a hobby or take classes or volunteer to fill up your spare time and try not to dwell on the past too much. It's easy to build the person up in your mind, forgetting all of their imperfections, when in reality, there was a good reason that relationship didn't work out. Take what you learned from it as a great learning experience and move on with your life in a positive way.

Good luck and God bless!

Answer 3

I would truly say that they weren't your soul mate. It may feel like it, but if the relationship was meant to be, you would still be together. It takes to mature adults to make or break a relationship-no matter how you look at it. No use playing the blame game, because it won't change what is done. The past is gone, but the future can be much better. Do your very best to think positive. I know it's hard, but it's the first step into feeling better. You need to "feel" the grief, and let it all come out to move on. That's healthy and important. You'll know when it's time to move forward.

Answer 4

If it was a true soul-mate the only thing that can separate you is death of one of you. If your soul-mate dies then you will never "get over" the loss. You will slowly become your own person again but you will never recover. If you just "broke up" then you weren't really soul-mates so get up and get out there and find someone that you can make happy with your presence. Yes I said presence NOT presents.

Answer 5

Maybe that soul mate was simply a person in your soul family group. Sometimes a person steps on our path and is there for a few weeks, years, decades . . . you two were meant to experience each other, share a bit of the path / journey together for awareness, lessons etc. Honor that experience, center yourself, heal and move forward. I was married 23 years, have been peacefully divorced 4 years now . . . I have come to a point in my life that I see our marriage as our time on each others path, we are no longer married . . . hearts mourn then heal . . . I know a true authentic heart of one I'm to meet one day is out there...we haven't as yet met. You won't ' get over ' your past love, you will simply learn, heal and eventually move forward on your path. Yet, do allow yourself time to mourn and heal...one day another will catch you eye and say . . . " Well, there you are, finally, where have you been "?.

Answer 6

how could you get over a soul mate????
This is the person u are suppose to be spending the rest of ur life with not gettin over them.but its basically its the same as gettin over anyone you need time and reasoning of y and how everything fell apart in the first place. can i ask a question are you sure you av done the rite thing??? a soul-mate is someone who you spend most of your life lookin for and its not something you usally get rid off??

For your sacke i hope you are doin the rite thing
and that everything turns out all rite for you guys.
just think bout it before you get rid of a relationship

Good luck and i hope my advice helps

Answer 7

i was married to my soul mate for 30 years, no you do not die from a broken heart but 10 years laters i have never meet anyone who could even come close. when it your soul mate you know it in your bones and then to loose the soul mate hurts a great deal. but as dumb as it may sound time does help to dull the hurt and get on with living.

Answer 8

That's easy, you just have to convince yourself they are not the same person you fell for. You judged their character wrong.

Unless that person was dead, and if they were your soul-mate they would anything and so would you to be together, that means both of you.

Romeo go find julet!, or you got the name wrong she was jill.

Answer 9

Easy, Open yourself to the possibilty that u can find happiness with more than just 1 person. Once u realise this u will find happiness again.

Answer 10

If she died, then the best you can do is get rid of all her stuff and just try as hard as you can to move on man. But if you guys separated, it's best to just stay the hell away from her. You might get possesive and that's dangerous.

Answer 11

hey- if he's your soul-mate, you wouldn't have to get over him 'cause ya'll would be together. There is a difference between some1 that you love and some1 that you are truly meant to be with. ( i hope that i don't sound like oprah)
my email is [e-mail] if u wanna talk.