My friend and I, when we go out, only go to the mall or her 7-11. But with her other friends, they do fun stuff like go to clubs, dinners, or bonfire at the beach. Like one time she went to my house on sat night and we were driving around. Shes like, ''Im sooo bored. What should we do?'' Im like, ''I dunno.. wanna go to the mall?'' She said, ''no i dont want to.'' I said, ''Wanna play pool?'' She replied, ''It costs money.'' Then she said, ''In high school on sat nights, i would go to the beach with my friend Katie.'' (who was her best friend) And inside, I feel like if she was bored, how come she doesnt suggest going to the beach. Like she only does fun stuff with her friends but when shes with me, we had a chance to go places but she always say, ''Im bored.''
2006-12-16 18:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think she is looking to you to be the social secretary of the time you spend with her. Be creative and do something unique. I don't know where you live, but if you live in So Cal I could give you a list of 12 things to do that don't cost a lot and are a lot of fun.
2006-12-16 18:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea just ask her what she wanted to do.. are you can always go the movies, go the park, go club..
your friends have done a lot of things.. that why she bored.. you should just go make some new friends.. because if you keep being with her you be bored... or you can hang out with your other friends or you can go find job...
2006-12-16 18:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. tell her ur sick of her saying she's bored and not doing anything about it and it feels really hurtful that she keeps rubbing it in about how great and interesting her other friends were. u cant always be giving the ideas. anw. my friends and i let loose and are super creative so we basically have a wild fun time once in a while.
2006-12-16 19:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by imawesome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't even bother guessing why she wouldn't want to do those activities with you, because whenever I think I know, I don't. However, if you want to go places with her, don't ask her if she want to go. Just tell her that it is you who wants to go, and if she's a good friend of yours, ask her to join you.
2006-12-16 18:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by lucstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your relationship with her is going to be over. If not, she would have done the fun stuff with you, wouldn't she?
2006-12-16 18:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for get about her......drop her and tell her...you need a girl whos a bit more fun.....
2006-12-16 18:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT DEAR IMMIDIATELY .OTHERWISE U'LL MIS THE BUS.
2006-12-16 18:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋