Just surveying the crowd.
2006-12-16 18:39:47 · 18 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
IT DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION.
SOMETIMES IT'S JUST BETTER TO SAY NOTHING, BUT OTHER TIMES, PEOPLE CAN MAKE IT REALLY HARD TO BE NICE.
AND SOMETIMES IT'S EASIER TO BE MEAN WHEN IT COMES TO THOSE THAT ARE MEAN TO YOU.
I JUST TRY TO USE MY BETTER JUDGEMENT AND WEED OUT THE NEGITIVE PEOPLE AND HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE THAT WILL BE POSITIVE YET REALISTIC.
I DON'T LIKE DRAMA. I TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM THAT AT ALL TIMES. IT'S MUCH TOO EASY TO GET SUCKED IN, EVEN IF THE DRAMA HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU PERSONALLY.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-16 19:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you're mean, you don't have to take any body's feelings or thoughts into consideration before making a move or doing something. you can do just anything you want without holding back and feeling restricted.
by being nice, on the other hand, you have to take every body's feelings and thoughts into consideration. therefore, risking your own happiness just to please the third party.
and finally, by not saying anything at all, you'll end up looking like a dumb *** who doesn't like to share your thoughts on anything and like to sit stagnant like an object with no life.
so, ultimately, it's better to be a plain old mean person in the society.
i hope i aided to your survey!
2006-12-16 18:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if you're in a good mood its easier to be nice. If you're in a bad mood, its easier to be mean. Or if you decide to be like Switzerland in WW1(or was it WW2?) and be neutral, its easier to say nothing at all
2006-12-16 19:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by xquadrophenia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easier to be mean but simpler not to say anything at all.
2006-12-16 18:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Neev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sometimes harder to be nice cuz you just met or have been served by a total ****** who you want to knock on their forehead and ask if anyone is home but i am to nice darnit so i cant be mean but i sure think mean thoughts. i have been told that i get some viscious looks on my face from time to time like i was saying one thing and obviously thinking another.
big deal i know...just how i am.
2006-12-16 18:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All 3 statements r about equal if u r dealing with a difficult person or situation. Any one answer could apply.
2006-12-16 18:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to be nice, it's way too hard to be mean...
However, it's hard to say "no" and too easy to say "yes".
On the other token, it's easier to be mean to the ones you love, you know they will forgive you!
2006-12-16 18:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by maria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simply better to not say anything when there is no certain reason to be nice or mean..
2006-12-16 18:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easier to be nice and say nothing at all
2006-12-16 18:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by youdontknowme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me...simpler not to say anything at all
2006-12-16 18:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by _______ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋