Some people just dont realize.?

Question

so i broke up my relationship with a friend that i seen as a gf also because she basically wasnt a really good freind, ignoring me, not calling back, i guess lying too, just acting weird and not giving me her attention. yea i talked to her best frend behind her back to get some "dirt" as to why she was acting weird. i wrote her a long letter as to why we ended up seperating our relationship frendwise and even told her srry that i talked behind her back, i was hoping she would understand why i ignored or broke up with her. i just sent her a txt message earlier and she called me basically telling me to not txt her no more, and to not talk to her no more. obviously she doesnt understand how much she hurt me and that sucks cuz i want her to realize how much of an ***** she is. but she doesnt. it bothers me. so what you think?

Answer 1

I believe you should march right over to her place and demand to speak to her, or at least try. If you really want somebody to know how they affected you or made you feel, you have to take action and not over a text or a phone call.


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Answer 2

Why some people? Most of us do not realize important things in life. First this sort of (unwilling) breakaways happen because the true sense of love - unconditional and selfless sympathy and respect for others - is not understood by both sides. Love is not just infatuation with the external form of someone, his/her skills that we admire or the status that one enjoys in some way & so forth. Giving and Forgiving is love; Getting and Forgetting is selfishness. You must develop qualities that attract others by its sheer majesty rather than allowing yourself to be drawn to others who may not be serious about you.
Don't worry.. the world is rich with people of great feelings and committment, as much as with people of idle and wavering interest.. Each person develops his/her own expectattions rather than assessing the expectations of others, the fulfillment of which would draw him/her to you. Adjust your value judgements to be drawn toward people of more stable temperament... normally people who are exceedingly pretty or rich or popular are likely to be egoistic - overtly or covertly - and you must judge carefully before giving yourself up to him/her..