we have four people in our room my room mate and i live in CD and our suite mates live in AB the suitemate who lives in A idolizes suitemate B my room mate and i (C) think they're gay should we be concerned and what should we do?
2006-12-16 18:33:10 · 15 answers · asked by kevinchrist113 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't worry about what they do behind closed doors.
2006-12-16 18:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like there's anything to be concerned about. If they like one another great... they're right next to one another so it makes life easier for them. If they're just good friends, great. Then at least they're sharing space with someone they can get along with.
But there's really nothing that needs to be done. I mean you've gone a whole semester with them as suitemates I'm assuming. If you've gone this long before posting this question they must be decent guys and suitemates, right? You must have some stuff in common? So just do what you'd do with any guys. My fave was going to the bar that had the good chicken wings and shooting pool.
A lot of times straight guys will think "Uh oh, what if he starts wanting My pretty face near his?!?" You really don't need to worry about that, because gay doesn't mean "hit on every male on campus, starting with the suitemates." Trust me. I had a lot of female roommates in college that I had absolutely No attraction to. The rest of the female roommates I just wanted to wring their scrawny little necks! (cough) But enough about me. :)
So chill, take a break over the holidays, and come back with a refreshed state of mind. And enjoy your college years! :)
2006-12-16 19:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, What does your room mate think? She is the one that matters considering she is the one that is the object of idolization. Any decisions regarding changing rooms, asking someone to move, etc. should be made by your room mate and should not bother anyone else. To each his own, Live and Let Live, etc.
2006-12-16 18:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by sunshinesue_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.. every gay man is not gonna be attracted to you. You might actually find that whether they are homosexual or heterosexual.. people are people and you should not judge them that way. I am telling you, if this is your first year of college and gay people are a culture shock to you. Well, you might as well leave college because you are gonna see things that are more different to you. Going to college is about being diverse, so give your suitmates a chance, you might actually like them.
2006-12-16 18:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What the hell CAN you do? Answer: NOTHING. Deal with it. If they're gay, good for them. YAY! More hot gay guys... woot. *shrugs* There's nothing to be concerned about. Just mind your own business.
2006-12-16 18:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about whether they're gay or not. They're not going to hit on you. Just live your life.
2006-12-16 18:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by animavecchia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does that have to do with you? If they're gay that's their business! What, are you afraid they're going to double team on you and gang-rape you or something?
2006-12-16 19:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, if they're gay and they know you're straight (which they'll automatically assume) they won't make a move on you.
2006-12-16 19:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit jealous to me! Maybe you should ask them for a foursome...
2006-12-16 19:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned? That they may leave you out?
2006-12-16 18:42:17 · answer #11 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋