ok my baby is 5 mos old now. when i was pregnant with him i got a pulmunary embelisim in my lung .i had to do heprin and lovanox shots in my stomach 2 times a day after he was born they told me not to have anymore kids because i got these 2 genes from mom and dad for blood cloting and it could kill me and baby i do not believe in abortion and nor does my husband i am only about 4-5 days if i am , but my abdominal muscles have really been hurting and cramping every since the night. My husband and i were having sex with a condom well i guess i pulled the condom off of his penis because it was hanging out of me and he got off but there was nothing in the condom please help me ?
2006-12-16 18:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by sjb_sparkles 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Before you start to panic to much, make an appointment to see your doc for an early blood test, they can dectect pregnancy hormones (hCG) as early as 10 days after conception.
Then cross the next bridge when you know for sure.
Good luck
2006-12-16 18:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so worried about dying or aborting, why didn't one of you get fixed? I would much rather have had a vasectomy than see my wife die, but she had cancer so I never had such easy choices as you and your husband do/did. Do you want to hear in detail the pain your husband and child will go through if you die? Been there, done that. She wasn't at all happy about leaving us either, and worried about what would happen to us. Isn't that a wonderful way to die, worrying how your child and husband will get along without you? With luck, he'll meet someone else shortly and your child will never know the difference. Your memory will be swept under the rug. How do you feel about that? Tell your husband that a man with a small child is a chick magnet, because it's true. Get him one of those snuggly pouches that straps the child to his chest and send him out in public to chat up the babes. Get him used to the idea, so he's ready when you're gone.
Get a grip, woman!!! You wouldn't want a t it cut off either, but you'd have it done if the alternative was dying. You and your husband made the choice to sacrifice eggs and sperm and prohibit any future children you might have from entering this world when you went with condoms. But it was a stupid choice if you didn't "believe" in abortion. Is that like not believing in the Easter bunny? Face the music--if you care about your husband and child, get an abortion if you must. If he cares about you, he'll get a vasectomy. It only hurts for a few days. Once he tests out, you won't have worry about condoms or pregnancy ever again.
2006-12-16 23:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if child bearing is that much dangerous for you and the baby, then you must abort. Its as simple as that. No matter whether your husband and you believe in it or not. Not much sense there taking mortal risks when the same can be avoided. Of course you must consult your doctor as to what is the best way out.
2006-12-16 18:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to wait until your able to confirm whether or not your definately pregnant. You may be getting all worried for nothing hopefully. I also think it would be a good idea for you to use a contraception like Implanon or the coil if another pregnancy would be so bad for your health. Condoms are good but many people have problems with them also. Good luck!
2006-12-16 18:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I would slow down & calm down! Wait till monday & call your OB she will prolly have U come in 4 a test. Either way you should start thinking about a more permanent form of BC.
2006-12-16 18:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call your dr a s a p. you might have another clot. your body is still healing from the last baby, and you are still re-working old muscles back into shape. you may also be as we call it in the south "fixin' to start" (we don't have P M S)
call the dr.....call the dr....
IF you are pregnant...your body may fight it, and miscarry
2006-12-16 18:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't beleive in abortion there isn't much you can do except start getting your "effects" in order and picking out your burial plot if you're pregnant.
2006-12-16 18:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a pregnancy test and consult your obstetrician.
2006-12-16 18:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should really talk to your doc about this one.
2006-12-16 18:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by merry xmas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋