ok my baby is 5 mos old now. when i was pregnant with him i got a pulmunary embelisim in my lung .i had to do heprin and lovanox shots in my stomach 2 times a day after he was born they told me not to have anymore kids because i got these 2 genes from mom and dad for blood cloting and it could kill me and baby i do not believe in abortion and nor does my husband i am only about 4-5 days if i am , but my abdominal muscles have really been hurting and cramping every since the night. My husband and i were having sex with a condom well i guess i pulled the condom off of his penis because it was hanging out of me and he got off but there was nothing in the condom please help me ?
2006-12-16 18:31:42 · 8 answers · asked by sjb_sparkles 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all, try to remain calm until you know for sure. Take a pregnancy test and see. If you are pregnant, then an abortion is probably the best choice for you. I understand that you don't believe in it, but if it is life threatening, then maybe it is necessary. If you can't bring yourself to do it, then you should get to the doctor asap and get monitored constantly during your pregnancy. Also, considering how dangerous pregnancy is for you, you should get on a birth control pill or have a permanent contraception process to ensure that you won't get pregnant again.
2006-12-16 20:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go right away to a doctor and discuss early measures. I agree with what another poster said: You have responsibility for a baby who needs you and a husband who loves you - why taking any chances? I understand that this is a very difficult situation and maybe you have to look into your views about abortion from a new angle. Put your 5 months old baby first! He/she needs you and would be traumatized for life to lose his mother so early. All the very very best.
2006-12-16 19:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, check to see if you are really pregnant. If you are, an abortion is your only option in this case. Why would you choose to carry the fetus, only to kill yourself and the baby, and then leave your husband alone and distressed for losing the most important person in the world to him? Why punish him too? Having sex has its risks. You already know what you need to do, and you knew that an abortion would be necessary if you got pregnant again.
I know it's tough
good luck
2006-12-16 19:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should perform a home test. If it's negative, repeat it a week later. If it's positive, confirm it with a blood test and seriously rethink your position on abortion. This would be a therapeutic abortion. And then either you or your husband (preferably him) should consider sterilization. In light of your medical history, I'm very surprised that your husband didn't have a vasectomy after your first child was born.
2006-12-16 18:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Run to a doctor, sooner the batter. Do a home test for pregnancy. You may be OK.
2006-12-16 23:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life threatening situation and you are wasting time here on Yahoo Answers. GO TO THE DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY.
2006-12-17 08:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little late to realise. The pleasure of intercourse did not make you yhink of the consequences.
2006-12-18 16:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is pray to God to ask him for help he's the only person you can depend on.
2006-12-16 18:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by cutipie_m10 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋