they feel free making plans in front of me to go to the movies or sushi. one time on of them asked me what move her and two other girls should watch, without inviting me. I've tried to make the plans so i get invited, but they all were "busy" with dumb stuff. its really degrading, im in 10th grade at a small high school and i just want some healthy including friends!
2006-12-16 18:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry to tell you that is no friend of yours, making plans that don't include you is a signal that she dosent want to include you....but making these plans in front of you is purposely , and spitefully done to belittle you, and make you feel excluded....with so call friends like these it would be better not to have Friends such as these, you should make new friends who accept you for who you are, and who you have a mutual, and good understanding with...not these morons, they plan to make you feel miserable, and left out you really don't need people like these in your life good luck.
2006-12-16 19:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
These are not friends. You need to venture toward some of the other kids and see what plans you can actually be apart of. Don't let this happen again and if you do, address it (this builds the character you will need for later in life) Say, "I thought we were all friends, are we?" Wait for answer and they will say yes. Then say, "I don't understand why we don't make plans as a group." They will still not include you and be petty but the point is that you need to address this issue with them.
2006-12-16 18:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with others opinion, they r nt ur frnds,they don't want u in their grp. They r willingly doing this to u,they r ignoring u so that u urself leave them.Select d frnds who feels.. & understands u. Frnds r one who shape our character,mean everything in our life,with whom v can share our each n every feeling. Good frnds support in our every right deeds & correct us in our every fault. So frnd.. pls do not hurry while making frnds. Take ur own time,judge them in all respects & then take d decision to make a correct person as a good frnd.
I really care for u,i too have many types of frnds n some of them had really hurted me. But i also have good frnds. Try this,hope u'll gell good frnds soon.
2006-12-16 19:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Cooki 8296 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this befell perpetually in center college with my team of acquaintances, and in all honesty it sucks, yet in the experience that they arent inviting you, then possibly they dont like you, im extremely sorry if im hurting your thoughts, and perchance i dont understand for confident because im not interior the difficulty, yet w/e like **** them, in the experience that they arent your basically acquaintances, bypass carry close out with some different person and perchance theyll see what theyre lacking. also you need to communicate and say such issues as "whats up we ought to continually all do some thing this weekend" or like "what are you adult males as a lot as this weekend/afterschool" and also you may initiate up the plans extremely of being left out of them i'm hoping this facilitates somewhat, and that i'm hoping issues get more beneficial quickly :)
2016-11-30 21:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should go make some new friends, it good to make new friends.. and it high school.. u be making more friend in college.. talk to your bestfriend..and tell her the problem...or you can always talk to your friends.. that is up to you
2006-12-16 18:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends? People I dont like would treat me better than they treat you. Go find some real friends who would do things with you.
2006-12-16 19:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by lucstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get new friends, if they are pulling that crap in front of you, then they are doing it on purpose. You are better than they are, show them that you arebetter, by getting rid of THEM!
2006-12-16 18:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find some new friends cuz the ones that u have right now obviously dont like u
2006-12-16 18:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I agree with with every one else they, they are not your friends. How about you get a boyfriend, thats some thing to think about!
2006-12-16 18:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by lbflow562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These aren't your friends, they're bitches who use you. Ditch them, they don't respect you!
2006-12-16 18:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋