i am 16 and in a very healthy and loving relationship and i really want to have a baby
2006-12-16 18:09:12 · 13 answers · asked by luvmyboy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I had a friend in high school that said the same thing. Her and her hubby had two before she was 18. She dropped out of school junior year, and the last time I saw her she was in rags and looked overly stressed out. Trust me, dear, be a kid while you still can, and worry about having babies later.
2006-12-16 18:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its tough being pregnant and having a baby at 16. Wait a few years and see more of this wonderful world first. I am talking from experience. I had my first baby at 17 and it was very tough.
2006-12-16 18:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You are too young. What's the hurry? I had a baby too young and it is really tough - even when you are in a "loving relationship." Finish school, get a good job, and then, if you still want a baby, then go and have one. Take time out, be a young adult - get stupid and crazy, it's your time to be selfish. If you have a kid, you can never go out and be selfish again - cause then you are a parent, and you have responsibilities - and they can suck.
2006-12-16 18:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by here I am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think it over. i was 16 and in a loving relationship, and when i turned 19, that loving relationship was ended when i walked in on him screwing his boss. i am 22 and pregnant, trust me, as prepared as you think you are, it is a HUGE life change, drs appointments, being broke all the time, unless you are independantly wealthy,and enjoy not having alife or sleeping, id seriously reconsider. The loving relationship im in now, is strained due to me being sick, mood swings and just general stress knowing in 6 months we are going to be responsible for another human being. a completely DEPENDANT human being no less. Im 22 , and i dont regret getting pregnant, but its a lot to deal with.
2006-12-16 18:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all every women deserves to have a baby at some time....if she can take care of it. With that being said you need to do yourself and all taxpayers a favor and not get pregnant now unless you have the several thousandths of dollars saved up to pay for all of the prenatal visits, the delivery, your care and the kid's insurance after it is born. I told want want my tax dollars paying for another pregnancy. Get a job with insurance and pay for it yourself. Don't count on your boyfriend.
2006-12-17 09:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by amo mi mexicano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything has a TIME. Now u are a teenager and this is the time for u to study and then earn a good job later. Afterthat u can get married and have babies.
Don't challenge TIME...otherwise u will have to regret later.
May God bless u.
2006-12-16 18:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want attention from someone or is it that you want to be loved or give love in a way that it has not found you yet? 16... I wouldn't say that's too young to get pregnant, but you have plenty of years ahead of you to do that. Remember, having a kid is permanent.
2006-12-16 18:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by goodtimes2x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Your only 16. Your still a child. Don't have a baby untill you have graduated college and have good financial stability. Trust me if you don't, you'll regret it. The man may leave you and then what?
2006-12-16 18:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Audrey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea your young and have your whole life ahead of you. Please finish school first and start your career whether you go to college or just start working before having kids.
You need to babysit or become a nanny do that and it will be a long time before you want kids
2006-12-16 18:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait untell i get back to the states id be glad to help
2006-12-16 18:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by bored in the box 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋