I would like to experiment with the D/s lifestyle, and want my wife to go there with me. Any ideas?
2006-12-16 18:00:17 · 5 answers · asked by Hound Dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had someone who tried to force this lifestyle upon me, and he scarred me to death.
Have conversations about your interests.
Do not force this lifestyle upon her.
Rent some movies about this lifestyle, and see if it peaks her interest. If not steer clear.
It us unfortunate however, once you tell people about these kinds of things it can make them uneasy. I am not saying dismiss your fantasies. I would just say be careful with the approach.
Do not seem so needy for this situation to take place.
2006-12-16 18:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Meko 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she isn't interested in the lifestyle there isn't anything you can do. Your wife has the right to choose what it is she will do or not do sexually, whether you want her to or not. Maybe you two should have discussed your sex life BEFORE you got married to be sure you were actually compatible.
2006-12-17 02:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yikes, most guys would like to know how get their wives to stop being a dominatrix.
2006-12-17 02:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First you have to think about your wife's personality, is she sweet and subtle if so, she would prefer being submissive. Most women don't want to dominate men they want strong,powerful men to dominate them. (Ask your wife pointedly if she's the exception)
2006-12-17 02:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm, ask your wife!
2006-12-17 02:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by redneckgardendiva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋