I am going to be married in next few days-Guidance required?

Question

I am going to be married in next few days I am very nervous, I am meeting girl first time. I wanted to know step-by-step guideline after entering to ROOM for e.g
what topic to start with?
how I starts to play with her ?
How I arouse her ?
How I control my self & finally intercourse? I would be very gratefull to you, expereince holders are specially welcome

Answer 1

The only piece of advice I am going to give you is to ask your new wife what she wants to do. Don't force her into having intercourse with you the first night, unless it is required by your culture as proof that you have consummated the marriage. Ask her what she likes to do, her favorite musician or actor, what she wants to get out of her life with you. Make her the center of your attention, and after she warms up to you (it may take a few hours), kiss her gently. Ask her to come to you when she is ready, let her make the first move towards intercourse, and let her take the lead the first precious nights you have with her
I am an American woman who's married, and had experience before marriage with other men. I don't think any amount of foreplay would make me excited about being pounced on like tiger's prey the first time I'm alone with a husband I've never met before. You may be eager to get this over with, but don't hurry the girl into the marriage bed until she is ready and a little comfortable with you.
And your first love-making may not be a spectacular, like in the movies, but it will memorable. She will respect you, not fear you, and this is far more important than taking her virginity on your wedding night. You will set the stage for a long, mutual affection, and a deeper understanding of what women REALLY expect out of a man, a husband, lover and friend.

Answer 2

this question is really really thing most of the beginers ask. there is lot of confidence to be built in before you enter into the room. if you are not talkative try to be. The important thing is " NEVER LOOK IN THE PAST LIFE OF GIRL". if you do that you will start digging into her life. once you understand her u will have a good partner life

Answer 3

attempt to take a seat back first of all, self assurance is the main suitable ability and pass with the circulate. (Have a humorousness) certainly be helpful and attentive and issues will fall into place. (ok)

Answer 4

I can't believe people actually answered this seriously! LOL