what should i do when my friends hate me cuz i dropped out of sumthing?

Question

ok heres the thing
im in this dance that me and sum of my friends r doing 4 r christmas assembly...and well we havent been practicing and r dance is retared and they think its kool but they havent seen the 2 othe dances and they kick @$$!!!!
so today i told them i din wana do it and that we should maybe cancel it and they sent me this email that said i was full of $hit and that we worked really hard and stuff and we really havent!!!what should i do???i am not gonna go in front of the whole school and embarres myself!!!but i dont wanna lose my friends either???and my othere friends said ic ould join there dance but then they would hate me even more!!what should i do?!?!

Answer 1

honestly for me, no matter how retarded a dance is, i would do it if my friends were also doing it. think about it, u all look like a bunch of retards together and u guys can laugh it off later on. by not joining your friends, they think u abandoned them. if i were them, i would think that u saving your own pride and being cowardly instead of sticking up for your friends and supporting them. go back to your friends and their dance. instead of abandoning them, help them improve their dance. just tell them that u saw the other peoples' dances and it made you all nervous because u didnt think u guys were good enough (the truth!). but u came back to your senses and want to help them improve their dance because u guys are a team!

Answer 2

This is a difficult situation. If you thought the dance was retarded, you should have dropped out a long time ago, rather than leaving it so late because now it will be impossible to replace you.
Your friends are right to be upset with you. If you say you will do something, you should do it, no matter how embarrassed you feel. I think you should go through with it, get it over with, and apologize to your friends for even thinking about letting them down. You never know; it might be fun.
Under no circumstances should you join another group because you think they are better. That is an outright betrayal and your friends would be justified in never speaking to you again.

Answer 3

If the dance looks retarded now with you, involved, what do you think it will look like when they lose you . I agree you gotta think for yourself at times. Going up there, and getting yourself embarrassed is never easy, but since they're your friends, and they're obviously not going to be persuaded to cancel the dance, are you gonna be friend enough to join them?

Answer 4

hmmmmm that's a pickle gurl i definitely wouldn't go embarrass my self personally bt if ur friends will be mad at u then ask ur self how good a friends are they any ways ?
it would be pritty snobby of u to change groups tho wouldnt it unless u dont care about looseing ur other friends with the crappy routine
some times its good to sacrafice some thing for others bt if u think u will get teased for dancing stupid then i say back out
go be the hot good one with the goood dance thingy


in other words follow ur heart trust ur instinks
if u think ppl will laff at u then they probibily will so just do what u want
also if ur friends wanted to back out of some thing u wanted them to do how would u feel ? if u wouldnt care then change groups
bt just imagine how they will feel about it
good luck honey hope u make the rite disition

Answer 5

they aren't your real friends if they don't relize what they are losing (you)