2006-12-16 17:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by shordies-bouncin' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Been there and felt that & been there and done that.
I dated a man for a few years. We were young. I was actually in love and so was he at one point. Then he started to drift away. He would still tell me he loved me but I could tell in his voice that the words 'I love you too" were merely being said out of habit in replying to me.You could tell in his voice they didn't have that meaning anymore. I could also see it in his eyes. (sort of like the gleam is gone) . . He ended up cheating on me and we broke up. I was devastated. But I moved on...and later on in another relationship it was vice vera (me drifting away instead of him)
If it is meant to be then everything will eventually work out okay. If not then you know the results.
Of course you could be misreading him. He may be going through a valley in his life. We can't always be on top of the mountain.
But n-e-ways, I understand it hurts and you want to do whatever you can to hang on to him because you love him.
All I can say is set down and have a NICE talk with him.
Suggest taking a break for the moment and see if he wants to do that. And if he does don't harass him..
DON'T START CRYING when/if you do talk to him of you don't get the results you are really looking for.
You would rather him be with you cuz he loves you and not because he feels sorry for you.
Good luck..
2006-12-16 17:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember you think he doesn't love you but he might just love you.
What you gotta do is ask him some questions about your relationship. Try and make him remember the times you had with each other. If he doesn't feel anything, Obviously he doesn't have any feelings for you. Good luck!
2006-12-17 01:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK YOUR BF! Who else is going to know but him. If you have an open and honest relationship, he'll tell you. If your relationship isn't open enough for a simple question like, "do you still love me?" then well, it doesn't sound like much of a relationship at all.
2006-12-17 01:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgardendiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OW that cost you 10 points but hey I got 2 points!
Ditch him..........
2006-12-17 01:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Git! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just kinda sad
he always expects too much of people
not just sex, he expects them to be wise too
mostly they aren't and he get very sad cuz of that
2006-12-17 01:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he loved you before?
2006-12-17 01:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll say it once, I will say it again...
Have sex with him.
2006-12-17 01:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Big Game Hunter 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋