ok i would ask my sisters this but i dont have one so im asking mostly girls out there but if ur a guy and u have answers go ahead. ok theres this boy in my class and his name is Tyler and hes new.i REALLY like him but he asked out another girl Hannah..but the week b4 he asked out another girl named Distiny..everyone says he likes me and im afriad that he might ask me out.I think hes kinda a player since he goes out with girls for a week then dumps them..but since i like him so much i will prolly say yes..but then im afriad he will dump me and i dont feel like getting my heart broken...WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!
2006-12-16 16:55:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok I'm not a girl but I will help anyway. Dont go out with him. If he will dump you within a week and you dont feel like getting heart broken, dont give him that chance. I understand you might really like him, but dont let your heart get in the way of common sense. Tell him plain out no. You are looking for a long-term relationship and if he really likes you he will respect your choice and maybe go out with you when he has matured more. So wait a while to go out with him when he isnt just looking for a booty call and such. Wait for a boy who will treat you right. This kid is just looking for some hot ***, and I really dont think he'll give you what you want. So all in all don't go out with him.
2006-12-16 17:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by egethepege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few things… these girls he is asking out. Is he just dating them???? Going out on a date once or twice with different girls is okay.
Or is he saying yo babe I wants yous as my girl..lol sorry, then dumps them a week later? If this is the case stay away from him,
Have you asked the girls why he dumped them? If you feel he’s a player then back away and move on. There are a lot of guys out there and you will find the right one in due time.
Usually you won’t find the right guy until after high school anyways. Very few find true love in a high school sweet heart and if they do, many I know, including myself ended in divorce. So,… you might just want to stick to dating in high school and stay away from sex. You’ll have a lot and I mean a lot of time for that later on!!!!!!!
Damn, can you tell I have teenage daughters. Lol But for real… if you think he’s a player.. move on to someone else. If he ask you out you can say no.
2006-12-17 01:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Studio A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like that playa attitude. He might be just trying to get to know girls but going out with someone for aweek and then dumping them isn't really cool. Tell him how you feel and see what his reaction is, if he gets mad, you're better off not going out with him anyway. You might be surprised so good luck!
2006-12-17 00:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 6 days 23 hours and 59 seconds.... DUMP HIM!
See what happens. If he takes it bad, say it was a joke and that you were only kidding. He'll forgive you and you will both laugh.
Good luck princess.
2006-12-17 01:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your position I would go out with Tyler and if he was to break up with me I would ask out one of his best friends or someone he hates and try to make him want you back(if you still like him)but if you don't like him and think he is a total jerk confront him about and be smart to never go out with a guy like him ever again!!!!!!!!!
:) Good Luck Girl !!!!!!!!!
2006-12-17 01:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by marzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun look at the situation...do you really think youd be any different to him? i meen if thats what you want...go ahead, but dont come back cryin asking why it happend. theres someone way better, hotter, nicer, more respectful and wholl like you for a little more than a week...just wait.
2006-12-17 01:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by brighteyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just didn't like the girls he already asked out after he got to know them. Maybe he will like you and he wont break up with you. even if he does break up with you, well then you will get over it...eventually. I say dont warry about it. Whatever happens happens.
2006-12-17 00:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk, dont go with him.
any guy that goes out with a girl for less than a week before dumping them is a heartbreaker.
2006-12-17 01:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was u i would like to get to know him a little better,i mean hang out,tlk on the phone and if he really see's the girl inside of u he wont dump u.....but dont get ur hopes up.....good luck..
2006-12-17 01:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your in it for popularity ( you seem to listen to what everyone else says), then go out with him and them dump him first. IT shallow but , well your young. ~sing~ if hes a player and you know it, leave his *** ~
2006-12-17 00:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋