I used to be bullied all the time, and this kid and his friends would always get a kick out of watching me be bullied. It was horrible, and I think I still have a complex about being bullied (even tho i'm in college) How can I overcome this fear and learn to trust some people again? What are some self-defense techniques to stop bullies in their tracks?
2006-12-16 16:37:10 · 5 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
u hav to b quick with comebacks.
get in shape and show everyone that they dont wanna mss with you
good luck
2006-12-16 16:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by idkidcsoyea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a school problem, schools should have some incentive/protocol on how to deal with it. There are bullying programs out there in the world of education initiatives. At one time there was speakers on bullying, anti bullying campaigns out there for schools.
Get some Counselling also if bullying has made an impact on your life.
The school my grand daugther started out if very rough so you know what I did? I made sure that she is enrolled in karate.
If a bully is not stopped, he becomes a wife abuser in the future.
Hey, Mr Nice Guy, bullies tend to pick on people who they think they can get away with picking on. It sounds like the school never ever dealt with these individuals.
2006-12-16 16:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is a women book but its really awesome spells out the comeback and helps you to know what to say to not be a victim
How to Be an Assertive (Not Aggressive) Woman in Life, in Love, and on the Job by Jean Baer My boss was giving me hell Now I know how to come right back at her She totally has changed how she treats me
2006-12-16 16:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are at a good start since you recognize your fear.
I would say just believe in yourself and read the book
How to win friends by Dale Carnegie. Once you gain confidence in yourself that bully crap will go away.
2006-12-16 16:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick em in the balls, if it doesn't work maybe axe em to stop, real polite and nicely
2006-12-16 16:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋