My friends all tell me that they are there for me and that they love me. But lately things have been a big blur. We don't talk as much as we used to. It's like they all want to mislead me and tell me lies. I end up the one who everybody gets mad at. Then I'm on the phone trying to staighten things out, but they all tell me different stories about who said what. I feel like most of them don't tell me the truth anymore.
2006-12-16 16:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
With this issue, I think you need to look deep within yourself to get the answers. Which of your friends until now have you known to always to be truthful to you and which one was usually getting caught up in a lie? You need to not talk on the phone but all talk in person. I guarantee you that if you confront them both in person, you'll get all the answers you need. You never know--they both might misleading you.
2006-12-16 16:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by iwantalovableguy23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to MAN he will give you a virus!!!!!!
I know 1st hand about this. My "friend" Candy did this to me. We used to be able to talk about anything and be truthful but a few months ago I noticed she was acting different around me and wasn't telling me everything and leaving me confused alot. So I backed away letting her do her own thing. In the process I moved about an hour away. Last month I went back there and spent the week at my sister's watching my son and my neice while my sister worked. Candy started blowing up my phone and when I got back home I called her to ask her what she wanted. She wanted to know why it was I came down there and didn't do anything with her. I told her she needed not to be so worried about what I did with my life that she can worry about somebody else like Josh, my ex. She was sleeping with him. That's what she was hidding from me. Let's just say we are no longer friend's and she hasn't called me since. When they act like that they are not your friends. Sorry, hope this helps.
2006-12-16 16:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a difficult situation to be in, and I'm really sorry you are going through that. Girls can be really bitchy, could be for a number of different reasons... Mayne your just too nice, and it sux cause you damned if you are and damned if your aren't.. I think you should either stop giving your all to the friendship (don't be so open) which will probably be hard, but its the best because if your disclosing then having to take back and make up for you being too nice then i don't think your friends deserve your friendship. good luck.
2006-12-16 16:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is start spreading rumors and telling lies about them. Make it as juicy and vicious as you can. Try to get your "friends" mad at each other. If you get confronted about spreading lies blame somebody else. That's what they're doing to you so it's fair enough to give them a taste of their own medicine. Have fun with it.
2006-12-16 16:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends ppl who gossip and backstab never change.make sure your not one of these ppl.
carnac your an idiot what sort of advice is that your telling a young girl to lower herself to their level.if you engage in tit for tat behavior you are more stupid than them and deserve whatever happens.very immature.someone has to be a grown up?at the end of the day if your honest thats all that matters i doesn't matter a **** what anyone else thinks.
2006-12-16 16:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by BUSHIDO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having a similar problem. I just don't consider them my friends anymore. Friends come and go. Get some better ones.
2006-12-16 16:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋