2006-12-16 16:24:01 · 21 answers · asked by ?!?! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is TOTALLY OK. For those who is so uptight about age, well, then I don't think they understand what love is or, a machoist who think that man should always be older in a relationship. Love goes beyond the superficial boundary of age.
There could be some problems due to the different stages of lives between the couple, BUT, it is NOT UNSURMOUNTABLE. Whenever there is a will, and determination, something can be worked out. Besides, even within the same age range, people have problems due to different personalities, so, I don't think there is any greater disadvantage. If any, the better age gap allows a better maturity of one part to keep the hot-young boiling blood of the younger one in 'check', instead of joining into the emotional arguments. Thus, preserving the relatinoship even better.
2006-12-16 16:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by SimpleGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee whiz--I've always liked "older" women. That's totally subjective. Objectively, why would it be "unnatural?" My last assignation was with a woman 22 years older. A real home run. She ended it. But NOT because of age. A good relationship has nothing to do with age differences, no matter what anyone says. I'd say he/you should go for it.
2006-12-16 17:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are realistic and realize that 1) society at large will not approve, but who cares and 2) she probably won't carry many children if any then its great for you. As long as your adult enough to be realistic on these 2 points, who cares what anyone else thinks? You can't please everyone, can you, no matter how hard you try!
2006-12-16 16:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they care for each other, than it's cool. society considers it unnatural for two individuals to hook up when there's an age difference. i don't want to sway your life, but in my experience, it can be valuable and hard all at the same time. if you can express yourselves to each other well, than by all means be happy and go for it.
2006-12-16 16:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not if she is hot .. I think a 48 yrs old skinny women who takes care of herself is much better than a 20 yrs old fat chick .
2006-12-16 18:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all rather you enjoy more with a experienced & mature woman.
2006-12-17 23:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, does it? If those two are happy, who cares?
2006-12-16 16:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Grommitt18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not the age but the compatibility
2006-12-16 16:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not common, but not unusual if you love each other
2006-12-16 18:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, as long as they love each other.
2006-12-16 18:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Imanobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋