We were married for five years, and have four kids. He came to Canada under my sponsorship. The first year he came he travelled back to his country, the second year he did the same, the third year he tried to do the same. He did not like staying at home, bonding with his children or me. In fact he went out all the time. I worked, paid the rent, bought the groceries, had the children, while he bought some groceries. He helped out with the cooking and the cleaning. Then one day the phone call came, it was her, he said that it was a friend. I told her not to call again. She did. I hung up and asked him what was going on. He that she was just a friend. I said I don't think so. I said what are you trying to do, don't you know that you have a family. He said that he loves his family, I said prove it. He never did. Shortly after I learned that he had a sex with her. After being in Canada for 4 yrs he left his province and went to another, without reason.
What is my move?
2006-12-16 16:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Johnnie C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce his *** and move on without him. He's worse than a rebellious teenager.
2006-12-16 16:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is move on. Stay busy get your mind off of that no good for nothing man. Start getting yourself back together look the best you can. Start doing things that you once enjoyed. Pamper yourself. Be the best mommy you can be. Do not call him unless it has to do with the children. Start moving on with your life and live your life without him. Good luck.
2006-12-16 16:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up your chin, go on with your life, you and the children will miss him terribly, but there are decent men out there and you will find one after your divorce.
1 more thing, do not talk bad about him and try to influence your children to think badly of him.
When they are older, they will decide for themselves just how much to hate him for leaving all of you. By keeping it inside, you will prove to your children you are the better and stronger in your marriage, and your children will love and respect you more for it.
Sorry to hear that he is such a jerk!
2006-12-16 16:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my god hes such a pig I would cut hes bags off if he did that to me. My god just dump the man forget about him really sorry to hear that gosh it must be awful after all that trouble in getting him with you he did that, terrible! Darling just take care of your self because you deserve much better in life then this loser cosing so much pain...
good luck! hugs, flory
2006-12-16 16:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its unhappy,yet being married to a filipino guy and seeing his pals do the comparable ingredient as your husband did to you i think its fairly wide-spread for some foreign places men! i could see if he has yet another kinfolk the place he got here from, im sorry . my husband instructed me whilst his brother left the philippines to return to the U. S. he had to re marry so he ought to stay in the U. S.! and so he left his spouse and babies in the philippines, and remarried a woman and had a son along with her suitable away. i could be so ****in p*** if i've got been u!
2016-10-15 02:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer, find the creep and get child support. Then Get help for yourself buy counseling or divorcee groups. Don't go through this alone.
2006-12-16 16:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, your children need you. Just make sure that he pays child support, and this is very important, because your children don't have to suffer because of his irresponsability. GET CHILD SUPPORT!!!
2006-12-16 17:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sarita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him like a bag of potatoes, you are already taking care of your kids on your own, you don't need him.. move on..good luck MOMMY
2006-12-16 16:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce,custody of kids full, child support
2006-12-16 16:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋