my friend is getting married for the third time..?

Question

so she asked me to be the maid of honor for the third time ...we are no longer close so it makes me wonder why the heck she asked me agian....i really dont want to do it beacause i am still paying on the last dress...any ideas on how to bow out without seeming to be an a$$ ,,,or do you think i am wrong in feeling like this and should i just be honest ...i really dont want to be mean or rude i still care deapley for the girl just i cant afford to do this agian for something that she seems to change as casually as her underroos???

Answer 1

I would say no,, three times might be the charm for someone but why make your friends go through all this expense, I truly hate people that want big weddings for 2 adn 3 adn 4th time around, the first is supposed to be the big one, the one you are supposed to stay with forever,, so if it doesnt work out,, go to a Justice of peace and be together that way,,,

so if you bow out,, you have my bcking, I would put it honestly,, that you are still paying for the last one,,,

Answer 2

Decline the offer and tell her you already have plans made for that day. Stick to your guns and do not back down. This girl is costing other people too much money.

Answer 3

Why can't people just be open and honest with each other? Just tell her how you feel! Don't do something that you're going to feel uncomfortable with!

Answer 4

Simply tell her honestly you won't be able to be do it this time. No need to elaborate your reasons. You have been there for her on other times, I am sure she will find it in her heart to respect your feelings.

Answer 5

by all means if you can't afford the dress tell her......maybe she'll pay for it....if you truly care deeply for her than you should be honest with your feelings....that's what friends do..

Answer 6

Tell her something like "No thanks, twice was enough for me. Let someone else have some fun this time around."