Is it Possible to change your personality?

Question

How so if yes? And i want to be funnier..so maybe more people will like me, I have 0 friends not joking please help! I am REALLY LONELY!!!!

Answer 1

I am really happy to know that we are on the same boat. The problem with me is I can be funny, but only when I feel energetic. 90 percent of the time my mind would be just too tired to be funny. I am thinking it is because I hang out with alot of non-energetic young men. lol. If you try hanging out with more fun-loving people, chances are you'll eventually become like them. The problem now is, will fun-loving people want to hang out with you? Sorry for being direct, thats just how things work. Maybe we can talk more. You really remind me of a girl friend I used to play with.

Reach me at [e-mail]
Shall we talk?

Answer 2

You can change the way that others perceive you by altering the way you act. You want to act funny? Use more sarcasm. But you are who you are on the inside and you can't change the way you perceive your own self.
Don't try to make friends - they'll only like you for what you're "trying" to be. Just be yourself and then you will start to find people you really relate to which would lead to real friendship.

Answer 3

I think you are who you are and you shouldn't change and if people don't like you for who you are then stuff it that's their problem I guess you just didn't match with that person... maybe your very anxious and nervous and shy when you try to speak to others so that might stop you from being your self, now just take it easy take a deep breath and try to relax just be your self not nervous just your self and see how good that feels ;)

p.s. I can be your friend if you want ;) I think your kool.

Answer 4

no. i believe everyone has an outgoing side and a quiet side. you do too. some people hide their outgoing side b/c of fear. i used to when i was a freshman at my new highschool. trust me, if you are not even a little outgoing around people, no one will become friends with you. i had no friends when i was a freshman. now im a junior and im done trying to hide my outgoing side and im done with trying to hang out with people i think cause drama. i now have more friends that are trust-worthy and i show my outgoing side and dont care what people may say. basically, if something is on your mind, say it (if its not obsene). say hi to people you know in hallways. dont rush things, people will come around to you if you show respect and confidence in yourself. whenever you do become closer to someone, dont rush the friendship, just give it time. and SMILE! even if you dont like your smile, smiling tells others that you like yourself and that they should too. smiling is key into making someone become confortable with you. hope this helps. i wish i would have do it a lot sooner... good luck! email for more tips!

Answer 5

U should not change your personality... It's more of perception for yourself. If u can't accept yourself, how can others accept u? Juz be yourself and u will see people coming to approach you as everyone is unique in their ways and there's bound to be people who appreciate u. It's juz not time yet so go with the flow....
I've been there and now i have people coming after me like bees to honey...

Answer 6

Changing your state of mind is one thing... but your true self will always be right beneath the surface, you can try to be a different type of person but unless is something you truly want is not gonna make you feel better... as long as you want to change for yourself and not to "belong" you will be fine

Answer 7

well am lonely too.
Yes u can't change ur personality
My name is Michelle
[e-mail] if u want to talk

Answer 8

Face everybody as an outsider. Don't dispute. If you have anything to say, say it politely.