Caring guy in need ??
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2006-12-16 15:39:48 · 5 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well this is a really tough situation you are in, but I have a few words of advice:
Keep doing what you are doing and everything else will fall in place. I know it has to be tough on someone like you. I am a touchy feely person as well, but don't let it get to you. If you really like this girl you will remain persistent; Let her know that you care about her feelings. By the sounds of it, America could use more guys like you.
2006-12-16 15:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible something has happened in her past to make her anti-touch. It may also be that she's scared to be touched, even in a nonthreatening way. It is so great that you are respecting her and her feelings on this, instead of pushing her. You're giving her time to see that she can really trust you, and that's important. Write her a poem that says how you feel about her. You could even frame it and give it to her for Christmas. When she is ready for a hug, let her make the first move.
I have to say that I wouldn't mind meeting a guy like you, but one closer to my age. You're going to make a fine man.
2006-12-16 16:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so sweet! Just give her time and when she is ready to let you touch her just let her do what she is comfortable with. Does she have any disorders that make her that way. You should really talk to her about it too. Good luck
2006-12-16 15:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPEND TIME AND TRY TO GET TO KNOW HER ON A PERSONAL LEVEL. WHEN I FIRST MET DANIEL (MY FIANCE) I ALSO WAS NOT THE TOUCHY-FEELY TYPE. AS I GREW CLOSER TO HIM, I BECAME MORE ACCEPTING OF IT. MAKE SURE SHE REALIZES THAT YOU WANT TO TOUCH HER BECAUSE YOU LIKE HER, AND NOT JUST FOR SEXUAL REASONS.
GOOD LUCK AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS.
2006-12-16 15:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just dont touch her, at this rate all you can do is let her come to you because she has like a phobia type thing and get real close and caring
2006-12-16 15:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋