I recently had sex with my ex on Nov.14th and my current boyfriend on Nov.16.Which one am i pregnant by?

Question

My date of conception is Nov.16th.My ex and I was together for 4 years and had sex almost every other day but I never got pregnant by him.My current boyfriend is very fertile having one kid already and another by his ex on the way.

Answer 1

You need to go on the Maury show.

Answer 2

Im not going to bash you. What I do want to tell you is, if you knew you were going to cheat on your current guy with your ex, than you should have been responsible enough to use protection. Second what if it was the other way around, and your current guy cheated on you with his ex, know he has a child on the way? Take the time to sit back and think about it....... Done thinking? It don't feel good do it. Sweetie I am a nursing student and what i am suggesting you to do is, first if you believe in GOD, PRAY ABOUT AND ASK FOR GODS FORGIVENESS, THEN LEAVE IT IN GODS HANDS. Then you will need to sit down with the two possible baby daddys and let them know. Just a little bit of advise you ex will not be as hurt as your current guy. And yes you will have to give them time to absorb it all, so don't get mad because they get mad at you. Yes you made a mistake and only GOD can judge you. The real man will stick around regaurdless what the outcome is, that is if he cares for you. Also to let you know, you do not have to wait until the baby is born to have a dna test. Yes it can be done while you are still carrying your child (alot of people dont't know that). Wait until your second trimester to have it done that way you won't have to wonder who's it is. Please don't have abortion its the wrong thing to do. I don't know how old you are but if you are old enough to lie down and get pregnat than you are old enough the raise a child. And when that baby gets her, you love that baby with all your heart no matter what the outcome maybe. If neither of the guys wants to be there for you and the baby. There are plenty of agencies out there that will help you until you get on your feet. You hold your head up high and do whats right for your child. And the reason why I keep saying "your child" is because, have you ever heard the saying" Mama's baby, Daddy's maybe". That means you will always be with your child even if the daddy isn't. Hold your head up, you will be alright. I'm 28 years old, I had my first child at the age of 17 got pregnat when I was 16, and now I have 3 children ages 11,10 and 7, and I made it. You can make it to. I think of it this way, yes i was young when i had my children but by the time i turn 30 most of my friends will just be starting a family and im done with mine. Don't get me wrong I didnt plan it to happen this way but once i got pregnat there was nothing i could do but have them a love them with all my heart. So just to give you alittle advise, 1 Pray about the situation, 2 Put it in Gods hands, 3 talk the the guys about it, 4 Have the test done before the baby gets here 5 take it from there. GOOD LUCK, REMEMBER KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

I don't believe right now that there is any way of knowing without waiting it out and doing a paternity test. I saw something the other day on TV that a woman had sex with two different men 2 days apart just like you and guess what !! She had twins......one with one dad and one with the other! I couldn't believe it whenever I heard it and looked it up on the internet and it is 100% possible. If you have sex with two people near the same time and you drop two eggs BAM-----twins with no daddy! Good luck!

Answer 4

first off, have you had a pregnancy test done? if not, how do you know you're pregnant?

secondly, considering the number of sexually-transmitted diseases out there, WHY are you sleeping around without protection? plus taking the chance of pregnancy?

However, if you are pregnant, congratulations and welcome to motherhood! i hope that you keep your baby and do everything you can to raise a family. but you SHOULD be honest with both men that either could be the father. and yes a DNA test is necessary to establish paternity. which you WILL have to do to establish which man will be financially helping you raise your child.

Fourthly, please look into resources for single parents, especially a single parent support center in your area so you can access all resources you'll need to raise that child.

by the time you have that child, the process of pregnancy and childbirth should make you into a responsible woman, given adequate support around you. please consider a young parent support group and parenting courses to help you as well if you feel you might need them. i know many young mothers who have benefited as their own families have been less-than-adequate.

[i disagree about adoption. it is nothing but lifelong pain for the mother to lose her child to adoption, and many adoptees suffer as well. read the book "PrimalWound" or go to the site MSN Adoptese to read about the pain of adopted persons. it's seldom worth it, even "open adoption," unless the only options are adoption or a long time in foster care which is not good for any child.]

but you do have a lot of maturing to do if you're sleeping with two different men within two days of each other. please see a therapist because you may have HUGE self-esteem issues if you let men do this to you.

Answer 5

Who knows! Sperm can live in the body for 48 hours so the exs could have already been up there when the egg dropped. Also it could be the new guys too. Only a DNA test will show you for sure. It seems the other guy is more fertile but that doesn't always mean anything. It took my hubby and I almost 4 years to conceive, and we were trying.

Answer 6

Honey! please erase this date issue from your head. Your dates are tooooooooo close together. There is ABSOLUTELY no way to know who the father is without a DNA test. Sperm lives for a little under three days. So, that means that when you had sex with the second guy, his sperm mixed all in with the sperm that were in there already. This is why Maury Povich is so popular. You wont necessarily get pregnant on the day that you have sex. You could have sex on Friday and not get pregnant till Sunday morning! sperm sticks around ...its tooooo close hun! Don't stress yourself trying to figure this one out because you have a 50/50 chance of getting it wrong!!!

Answer 7

Well first of all you shouldnt do that to yourself or your new bf...He could really care about you and you just hurt him really bad. There is a reason this guy is your ex...you should keep it that way or change it.....The only way for you to know who is the dad is going in to take a test. There is a difference btwn fertilizing an egg and conception, Conception, when its attached and releasing hormones to stay inside your body so your body doesnt reject it...thats where the sickness comes from. and Fertilization is of course, the sperm hitting the egg...YOu just need to choose who you want to be with.....you can get a disease from sleeping with both guys and give it to both of them or your ex can give it to you from going back and forth btwn two partners!
I hope this helps you change your mind on what your doing and with your problem.......

Answer 8

Please some of you all act like yawl haven’t made a mistake like this. We are supposed to be helping this person not making them feel bad. My advise to you is talk to both of your boyfriends and see what the result is going to be after the baby is born. Please stop havening sex with your ex if he already have children there is no need for you to be the 3rd or 4th whatever baby mama. You know? No dick is that good to be caught up in drama. I hope everything works out!!!! Pray about it

Answer 9

If your conception date is Nov 16 then the father is more than likely your current boyfriend but it might be hard to tell as your ex's sperm would've still been there and would've been closer to the egg. Tell both of them you are pregnant and that you want a paternity test after the child is born. Or you can go by who the baby looks like but that's not very reliable. Your doctor might be able to answer your question better. Good Luck!!

Answer 10

initially how a strategies alongside are you? by using fact in case you have been having intercourse with the two one in each and every of them on the comparable time you acquire pregnant. do no longer anticipate them being there for you, by using fact they the two will think of their no longer the daddy. you would be able to desire to sit down down and do the mathematics. Now if its your ex-boyfriends then you certainly would desire to tell your new boyfriend the very fact. tell him and she or he what he says, yet do no longer anticipate him to stay with you by using fact he continues to be youthful too. tell your ex which you in simple terms found out that your pregnant and your this a strategies alongside. tell him he's the daddy and you like him to be there for the toddler. He may be there for you and he will possibly no longer. "anticipate the terrific, yet practice for the extra severe!" Its going to be an quite annoying concern and in simple terms concentration on you and your toddler interior you. in spite of if or no longer any guy is with you. I want you the terrific and have a healthful and secure being pregnant and transport.

Answer 11

It has already been said but I am just going to agree call Maury. It's better than waiting 18 years and going on Springer!