I'm scared should I call the cops?

Question

Ok, my mom sent me to a poultry shop and on my way there, I saw a gang of young boys rascal looking. One of them called me a sexy little slut.When I came back from the poultry shop, they were still outside and they sarted fanning they're selves with their shirts it was a summer. Ever since then, everytime i walk by, they start whispering and once one of them tried to kiss me in the train. They look from about 17 to 20.
I'm 14 years old. they were really tall from like 5'9' to 6'2'

he called me a sexy little slu*t

Answer 1

Yes what they are doing to you is called assualt and unless you are fine and comfortable with it then you should call the cops and they will see to it that those stupid pervs get one hell of a long time in jail.

Answer 2

Well in all honesty right now it would not seem anyone has broken any laws that the police can arrest them for. I would suggest that you try to advoid the and also talk to your parents about this. Your parents are their to help guide you and also protect you from dangerous situations. On the train try to stand by a adult man or woman and if the approach you tell them you are not interested in them, someone should help back you up if necessary. Yelling rape on the train if someone is trying to force you to kiss them will make them back off very quickly and they will be very unlikely to ever try it again. Rape is forcing someone to do something sexually against their will not just intercourse. If nothing else helps then possibly take a later train or possibly your parents can help you get to where you need to be and keep you from a potentially dangerous situation

One thing to realize is that the one boy alone is probably not a threat in public, it is when they are in a group that they get gutsy or even dare someone to do something.

But really to avoid running into them is the best advice, along with your parents being aware that you are scared of these boys.

Good luck and be safe.

Answer 3

Here's an idea-get an athlete(sometimes they're Fellowship of Christian Athletes) or an older brother (if you don't have one, one of your friend may) and have him back them off. A group of guys that are getting too brave with you won't stop until other guys tell them to. I had this job a few times and became a trained fighter as well. Don't be shy, talk it around to others(it isn't new, it isn't your fault either) and see what you can accomplish. This has been going on so long, that I am now 50, and you are asking about something I dealt with in the 1970's. It old hat, don't worry about what anybody thinks, get the guys in on it-you'll learn.

Answer 4

I would have my mother call the law and talk to them. Since these guys hang around a lot, they are apparently from your neighborhood, and the law probably knows about them....Go to Walmart and buy some pepper spray. Read the directions and keep it with you whenever you are out...Next time one of them tries to touch you, spray them in the eyes.....they will get the message and just start calling you a b---h. Which to me is better than sexy anything, because those words mean their thoughts are really in the wrong place, and they could harm you....Don't go out alone at night. Tell your mom why, don't be embarrassed...She wants to protect you more than anyone....Tell a brother, a cousin, or an uncle about this, maybe they can straighten those boys out.......Be safe......

Answer 5

Your safety is the most important thing to consider. If you feel threatened then Yes, call the cops. Dont think that your ok if you dont know for sure. One really big thing you can do is not put yourself in harms way. But, since criminals dont think about your safety then you have to do that on your own. It must be really hard to have to ask such a question but you are old enough to make the right choice. Call the Cops if you feel uncomortable. Take care of yourself.

Answer 6

You really should try to take a different route, and if this is not possible, either way---tell your parents about this, and make sure they provide a safe ride for you somehow. You are outnumbered, and could get raped. I would, indeed- call the police. Tell them that which occurred, and the exact words..(which ARE sexual harrassment!), and do whatever you can to not be in a situation where you are alone around this group.
I am praying for your safety!~ <><

Answer 7

the first thought would be to call the cops but if they try to huras you then you need to call the cops. Like they touch you the wrong way like when you said that that boy tryed to kiss you would be good but he would have to start touching you and then call the cops because then they can find the boy or boys and they might/will get arrested for messing with a minor.

Answer 8

Yes you should that is harrasment and them boys have no right putting their hands on you. Dont allow this to happen anymore because the longer you do the more they will do it and something worse may occur. I would also suggest you walk with a friend so you are not alone.

Answer 9

Of course you should because that is called harrasment. that could really hurt you and could lead to rape since you are so young and still have a long way to go in the world. call the cops, tell your mother...TRUST your mom. she'll try to understand if you tell her the truth. that is how you gain trust. call the cops and ask them to be kept anonymus. that way there is NOTHING they can do to harm you.

Answer 10

Call the police and tell your parents. It's sexual harrasment and has to be stopped. Try this link street-self-defense.com and see if you should purchase the DVD. I did and I hope that it helps everyone should they get into a scary spot some day.