omg I really need to do homework and concentrate on other things but lately I cant stop thining about this one person and focus on things that NEED to be done. How do you get a person off your mind???
Please help me, my grades have dropped from As to Cs
2006-12-16 13:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by Just Me 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You must focus on what needs to be done first, like your school work, and then you will have all the time you need to think about anything else you want! You have to convince yourself that until your work is done, you just need to self disapline yourself to get your work out of the way, because then for all the hard work, is the reward...thinking of HIM!!
2006-12-16 13:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. Remember, school is more important than any love interests at this point. Why don't you approach him and settle it once and for all. Find out if he feels the same way towards you as you. It might just be a question of a crush or puppy love but it's worth finding out. You sound like a very smart person. Don't let schoolwork suffer as a result from matters of the heart. Don't get rocks in your head and stars in your eyes.
Is he really worth it ? Find out for sure. So you can get on with your life.
2006-12-16 22:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my own trick was to sequester my self to a quiet zone and create a senario in my mind that ended in love=making@$# then go back to the Tasks at hand. include HIM in your/work /dream sequence also - ASK q's make beleive is practice for later. not just kid stuff. I am 60
2006-12-17 02:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by henry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice narrowing the focus of your thoughts to the task at hand. With practice you can and will learn this skill.
2006-12-16 21:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize he's most likely NOT going through what you are putting yourself through. Get on with what is way more important to your future, like your education.
2006-12-16 21:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it! I'm the same, I WAKE UP thinking about him and go to sleep thinking about him. It's like food to me. I can't live without thinking about him. Sorry, can't help you there. Just wanted to say that I'm the same...and I need my two points.
Good luck
2006-12-16 21:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Alterna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just study and every time you start to think of that person tell yourself no, just don't allow your self to feel sorry for yourself
2006-12-16 21:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think about school when u are in school and after school u can think about the person
2006-12-16 21:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need to do is delete him from your mind little by little
2006-12-16 22:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love! cherrish it.
2006-12-17 00:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by paulmessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋