She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
I think they may have b/c his hand is on her in a way that is not "normal".
Should I go in there and be like" you may want to put on some more clothes, b/c you father is almost home"??
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all upset b/c this wasn't what she wanted to happen and embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out??
2006-12-16 13:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
they are 16 yrs old
2006-12-16 13:34:34 · update #1
ok, i am 15, and my mo mwould kill me if i was her. But coming form an adolesents view, if you want to scare them, walk right in there and demand to know what is going on. If you want to just let it slide, knock on the door, so they think u didnt see anything, and it gives them a chance to put their clothes back on. But i think you should knock on the door, and pull your son to the side and tell him you need to have a talk with him, leave the girlfriend out of it. Tell him what you expect of him. I hope u liked my answer... good luck mam
2006-12-16 13:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you're probably wanting to walk right in there and wake them up, but that probably wouldn't be the best idea. Your son might get angry with you, and we know that that could lead to a long arguement.
What I would do would be to wait until they're awake, give them time to put some clothes on (that way neither will be too embarassed), and then if you feel the need I would have a conversation with him. Did you have any idea that he and her were getting intimate before? Is he around that age?
I wouldn't raise my voice or anything, talk to him like a peer (though make sure to keep that parent approach to it). Battles between kids and parents can be brutal, and the last thing you want is for that to happen. Just talk to him, i'd say alone first, and if afterwards you want to speak to both that'd be fine. I wouldn't bring the girlfriend into it right off though, hopefully this helped some.
2006-12-16 13:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Cassidy's Mama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i just would wake them up and tell them to put some clothes on but i would let the gf stay over
2006-12-17 06:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Skater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quietly wake your son and talk to him after his girlfriend leaves so it doesn't get any more awkward
2006-12-16 13:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old they are and he is a boy so just let it ride and be happy that he not laying in bed with a man in victoria secret.
2006-12-16 13:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by gmob2004 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on there age if us hud embarrass them or not but i would wake my son and ask him to tell her to dress herself out of respect for my home
2006-12-16 13:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by jessica l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to act hesitant about this. I would do the logical thing and wake their *** up.
2006-12-16 13:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just tap my son on his shoulder and be like could you please get dressed, and act as tho. nothing happened cause I would trust my son and know he didn't do anything
2006-12-17 17:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by shymeg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wake them up and give them hell then call her parents and make her tell them what happened
2006-12-16 13:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by linda y 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how old are they would be my question..
2006-12-16 13:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by jstrmbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋