Married 21 yrs, she says that the sexual side of her affair is a lead on to get my attention. He has sent her video of him mastubating and they continues to im each other.
2006-12-16 13:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hell send the dude a video of you masturbating....
2006-12-16 13:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It's a very big deal and it's selfish deviant behaviour. It's a perverse and ridiculous intrusion into your relationship. It is an insult, it is disloyal and it is cheating.
Engaging in cybersex is a short step to taking cheating to the next level. You need to tell your wife that cyber sex is absolutely, unequivocally unacceptable in your relationship. Draw a line: Your partner needs to choose between this or the relationship.
I wish you the best in dealing with this difficult situation. Peace :-)
2006-12-16 13:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it could really be considered an affair, I cyber but i don't know about the video part, that would piss me off too
2006-12-16 13:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a big deal, even if it never starts off that way, and may not be intended to be that way. She's missing something, and that means you may be missing something. Figure out what that is.
2006-12-16 13:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats disgusting, but it sound like something maybe missing from your marraige you guys need to talk big time. My husband would be gone if I found that out about him!God Bless!
2006-12-16 13:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by cristy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big deal. That's only temporary and what you have is a life time. It's not worth it.
2006-12-16 13:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by peanut44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get back at her you can have an affair....or when you 2 are about to go to sleep just pull out any random pic and masterbate to it .......yeahh
how old r u newayzz?
go find the guy and kick his ***..
or just go and get counciling.....or have sex w/ er and mb shell forget himm
2006-12-16 13:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Fazaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make 100's of copies of is video and give them out to all his friends, co-workers
2006-12-16 13:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Threaten to divorce her. Doing that is wrong. I would feel betrayed.
2006-12-18 15:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same with other women. maybe to neet someone nicer than your wife
2006-12-16 13:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
get rid of the computer talk to her and go to marriage counseling... good luck though...
2006-12-16 13:23:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋