About six monthes ago in acting class I met a guy who I got a little obsessed with. I talked with my friend about him and she asked him out for me. He never said yes or no then back at acting I just acted like a freak around him and couldent stop flirting. I didn't want to I felt like I was in some trance or something. Then after it ended I asked him over to my house a few times. He never said yes or no. Then he made up some story that he was a pot head and his band broke up because of it. So since I cared about him I asked my mom to write his mom a letter about it. So I mailed it to his house. Ever since August when that letter got to his house. He has hated me ever since. I can't forget about him. In a way its just tearing me apart. What can I do to make the feeling go away or help any?
2006-12-16 13:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by Mysterious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You had your mom write his mom about his drug problem?
No wonder he can't stand you. Sorry for being harsh, but that was a big unexpected thing. You should have told him you were going to tell your mom to write his mom.
2006-12-16 13:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are complicated including yourself. But give yourself some time and the feeling goes away. In the meantime do things for yourself that make you happy. But there is one thing that is true, another person can never make you feel happy or unhappy. I think everyone goes through what you are going through and eventually the important thing you have to learn is that only you can only make you happy or sad. It's not wrong to like someone and express it. You went a little overboard when you wrote the boy's mother, but again that's part of growing up. Don't be so hard on yourself. When it comes to relationships, you are worth having someone who likes you. You are worth that now and you always will be. Remember that and you will be okay.
2006-12-16 21:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why on earth would you get your mother to write his mother a letter about pot smoking? You can't be serious, this has to be a joke!. You must of realised that if you sent that letter then you would lose him as a friend.
There is nothing you can do but forget about him. Sorry to say - I doubt he is going to forgive you anytime soon or even consider dating you.
Basically, when you feel like you are thinking about him, make a concious effort to stop and distract yourself.
2006-12-16 21:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Deelicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you this but it sounds like he was brushing you off. Sounds like he was trying not to hurt your feelings. If I were you I would apologive and move on with your life. It is not healthy to obsess over someone and go to the lengths you have gone.
Give him some space and find things to keep you occupied. Sometimes people are just not ment to be together. Find someone who appreciates you for you and can give you a straight answer and not make up lies about their self!
Dont you think you deserve someone who cares as much about you as you do them?? think about it.. good luck.
2006-12-16 21:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first i would try apologizing. then i would learn from my mistakes i know you were only trying to help but it is best to just leave well enough alone. he probably was just trying to make up a excuss to not come see you so when your mom wrote his mom a letter that kind of let his mom know all of his secrets and thats kinda bad. just keep doing what you doing dont think about him as much and you really liked him so of course he is still gonna be on your mind you cant help that just go on with your life.
2006-12-16 21:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he obviously wasn't interested the first 2 times you asked him...so i would've just let him be. but you got your mom to write his mom a letter? he was probably just kidding....but er..good job.
2006-12-16 21:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something relaxing and move on.
2006-12-16 21:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mixed-Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should have minded yr own business
2006-12-16 21:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋