Why do some women blame men for their poor choices in life?

Question

Like they'll say "my boyfriend hits me" instead of "I got out of line and he had to put me in my place"

Or "I was sexually harassed at work" instead of "I dress like a total slut at work for attention and today it worked"

Or "I was raped by my father when I was 10" instead of "I seduced my father when I was 10".

Is it so hard to take responsibility for our choices instead of blaming men for everything?

Answer 1

First off, there is no excuse for hitting a man hitting a woman. Secondly, women have every right to reject unwanted advances from a man. And third there is no such thing as a ten year old seducing her father.

The ideas you pose are not choices for women. Women don't choose to be hit or touched, they don't choose be called names by coworkers and they don't asked to be sexually abused.

Instead these are poor acts by humanity. Males that commit these types of acts and people, men and woman alike that ignore the problem.

Sometimes you need to be a nosy neighbor or make an anonymous phone call to 911. Sometimes you need to speak up on someones behalf if they are only be judge on looks. Sometimes victims need to stand strong and report their attacker so others won't be hurt.

Remember that attacking someone, sexual harassment and molestation are victimless crimes.

Answer 2

you are a total lame, how does achild seduce an adult, you drooling doofus? No one has the right to hit another human being for any reason and what the hell exactly is "getting out of line". Telling you your penis is an inchworm? Sounds like you have some serious issues toward women and should seek some sort of therapy or maybe you should just blow yer f' in brains out being that you are just such a braindead LOSER, and if Yahoo violates me for telling an idiot that believes children seduce adults off then the Yahoo po-lice needs help too

Answer 3

Nice to see there are many that see your examples need some major fixing. It shows me the world is changing for the better.

Going on to the question and not the examples.........

Well lets take the sex out of as well.........

A person often blames another when they are unable to look at their part in the event that has taken place. Mostly it comes down to insecurity.

Now back to your examples. There is no excuse for a person to hit another person. If you loose control its your fault!

There is no excuse for rape. Rape is about power trips. Seek help if you really believe there is an excuse for either example.

Answer 4

You don't want people to think your a slut, don't dress like one. It's stupid when people say "women should be able to dress whatever they like". You should dress the way you want people to view you because you cannot change human nature. Humans naturally judge people based on appearance. That is where first opinions are formed. People won't change so get over it.

Also, women blame men for their poor choices in life because women complain a lot, period. As a man your taught to "take it like a man". While a women can cry her heart out blaming everyone around her but herself to make her feel better.

Answer 5

given those examples, women should blame men for their choices. A women has the right to wear what she wants without having to worry about men's over active sex drive.

That bit about the ten year old is sick. Is there something psychology wrong with you?

Men need to learn respect and women need to learn more self-confidence so they don't end up in some situations.

Answer 6

Okay the question was pretty valid....but the examples were sh*tty, sick, and BAD EXAMPLES...i mean damn a 10 year old knows the concept of seduction and desired to be molested? Get the f*ck outta here!

But the QUESTION seems valid, as with the sexist discrimination, the role's women seem to be put in, and also the stereotype men themselves have been put into, suddenly for every wrong or for every problem a woman seems to get into it's suddenly a man's fault for it.

Like instead of the sexual harrasment at work..try "i got raped' when it should be "i went to a house party by myself, got flat drunk with a bunch of dudes that were just as drunk in a crime infested area".

Or all men are dogs...when it should be " I shouldn't date thugs, or assholes and screw em on the first night because they made me feel pretty or give me a thrill"

Or why are we called sluts, whores, and b*tches when it should be "why do we degrade ourselves in music videos, where the most revealing outfits, and succumb to flashy cars, jewelry, and rich men, and then get MAD when we are stereotyped that we're sluts, whores, b*tches, golddiggers the like?"

I'm sorry you may have the right to wear what you want, but if you play the part you GET the part. Not everyone is YOU...and understands dressing like a subtle ho mean's 'women's unique independance' maybe if they could read their mind it'd be easier.

It's more about being biased than anything really....if negative A exists with one man..then suddenly ALL MEN are negative A. Just like the sexist dudes, and the big business owners that underpay women, or the guys that want servant housewives, or the assholes that dismiss women for tasks because they find them weak.....because THESE bastids do this to women...suddenly every freakin male on the planet is them...it's the most ignorant biased thing on the planet.

And don't even get me started on their bullsh*t with abortion . "oh it's so easy for you to say don't abort or HAVE the child cause you ain't goin through labor, or you don't have this" like it's our f*ckin fault we weren't born a woman...if they aren't me then who are they to tell me i don't know what the F*CK i would do or what i wouldnt' do...if it were up to me i'd keep the child and go through the labor.....**** it's life..it's natural.. it's happened for centuries so as a woman i'd accept it as is.....sh*t as a MAN I would care for a child BY MYSELF, and endure the 20-24 years of suffering and sacrifice to care for it myself and let her endure her 2-3 hours of overwhelming pain if it was SOO bad. So that biased bullshit about oh you dont' know how it feels they can SHUT THE F*CK up about that..it takes 2 to tango dammit, if you gave half and half to see a movie who gets ownership of seeing that movie BOTH OF YOU DO.

And if you think you coudln't bare the pain or i couldn't understand it trust me i'd gladly take your position because obviously you're aren't worthy enough to bare that child and live with the natural cycle that it entails...i'd gladly take up the load and deal with it like a WOMAN if i was a woman..and like a MAN if life ever permitted it to be so...........

Answer 7

You are truly vile. You only posted this because you have a screen to hide behind like the coward you are, but the truth is you are weak and pathetic. Only a very screwed up, sick person would ever post such a thing. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Answer 8

I don't think it's proper for a man to hit a woman, a ten year old seduced the father....... anyone don't deserve to get raped...maybe if it happens to your family & friends you might understand better..

Answer 9

You actually had a point going there for a minute. Are you seriously dumb or were you just being sarcastic to prove your point?

Answer 10

you sir are a troll
you sir are a man
you sir are giving men a bad name
You sir go Frack off