OK, Ive been really stupid and shut myself off from the rest of my class, now I only have four friends. And they all have people they like more than me. Everyone else doesnt really like me. But now its getting worse, all of my friends are moving on and going off with other people and now I'm often finding myself more and more on my own, especially at break. I just wonder around while everyone else goes off with their other friends. It was like this before, and I spotted this problem at the end of primary school, and fixed it by talking more. But now Ive failed and I'm back into the same old rut I was in before, with no one to turn to. I tried to be someone Im not to get more friends and clear myslef up but it hasnt worked! Every day at school just gets more depressing. Sometimes I have to fight back tears because Im so lonely. I need my friends, but they don't need me. I could disappear and they wouldnt be affected. Has anyone else gone through this? How can I turn myself around?
2006-12-16 11:45:35 · 13 answers · asked by T-Bone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yep! Been there, Done that. The first thing you need to do is not shut yourself off from people , secound never be anything your not be yourself. third talk to your buddies and let them know how your feeling for they can't help if you don't let them know what's up for no one is a mind reader. fourth make new friends by geting involved in a project or activity you like to do. fifth look outside of what you think your type of buddy whould be for then you might find a reall friend for life, Sixth don't let yourself get down and all gloomy get out of the rut by getting involved in something new, seventh like I stated B yourself and nothing more or less for then when you are people will like you better and they will know you not someone you pretend to be. Happy Holiday's and i hope this helped.
2006-12-16 12:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all. She's no longer engaged at 15, -- it truly is only stupid youngster speaking. i understand you could love at 15, I did -- yet engagement is a special tale. human beings threat a lot from 15 to an older age. i'm 22 now and that i have matured a lot for the reason that i became 15. -- That being stated i imagine it became incorrect of her as a lot as now a friends Ex ... it truly is an off limits zone continuously! yet what's performed is performed, .. this is been rather a lot a 365 days now and he or she is misplaced the pals already.
2016-10-18 09:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the question is why are you shutting yourself from other people? yes i have gone through this. what you do is just start callin ur friends and asking to hang out. just tell ur friends that u were going through a tough time and u needed to be alone,but now u want to get into the group again. thats the best advice i can give ya. i hope it goes well. take care of ur self man.
2006-12-16 12:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by s_stim2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad i used to have that problem wen my best friends left 4 times. all u need to do is find other people you may not like so much but are lonely to and enjoy having fun and just need a friend. so maybe your friends are a little mad or tired of you i know it sounds bad but just be nice to everyone and hang out wih lonely people and BE OUTGOING.
2006-12-16 12:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Jacob Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've kinda been in the same situation but not to the point where i've completely lost all my friends. you shouldn't try to act like something you're not just to be noticed. and if you're friends cant accept you for that then u deserve better than them. try joining clubs or groups and meet new people that might get along with you better. also introducing yourself to others wont hurt =]
2006-12-16 12:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by struggles.never.last 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first talk to your friends then just try not to be so secluded. Try to talk to your friends friends. Yea I went through the same thing last year, things will get better.
2006-12-16 11:52:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you just stand there, not saying anything, looking depressed, and you wonder why people are walking away from you, then something's wrong THERE. people don't want to hang around a downer..but if you would just think about how they'd like it more if you WERE talkative, then they'd hang around. but you can't just sit and expect people to come to you.
2006-12-16 11:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been thru this too and it may seem dorky but talk to youyr parentals about this and they might take you to a sychiatrist b/c you sound really depressed. i got thru it by talking to my best friend and it turns out we liked each other so much we started dating... god makes everything good inm the end!
2006-12-16 11:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by sexiredhed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means u never had friends, u just had associates, people u talk to everyday. Everybody has associates unless you're a school reject, but i have associates and real friends, i know who my associates are, and i know who my real friends are.
2006-12-16 11:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you must have good friends right I'ill be you friend you don't seen to be that bad lets start by telling me about yourself and your name please?and I will help you turn yourself aroundas well
2006-12-16 12:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by poochie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋