2006-12-16 11:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by genkiko1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Next time he does it make sure you have the car keys and leave him standing there.
When he finally gets home tell him that you're not going to be embarrassed or humiliated publicly again whether he likes it or not and leave it at that.
2006-12-16 12:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, did you notice that in all of that not once did you say, "I love my husband."? The closest it came was "He made us look like an unhappy couple who does not really love each other." Then you got married for the wrong reasons. "They and my relatives pressured me to marry him and I did so because I thought he was a nice good guy." Obviously you married him under pressure, and not because you love him. How you describe your relationship with your husband is not love. It is you being bullied and humiliated by a man that make you think that you can do no better than him. In fact I say that he can do no better than you and that is why he feels a need to keep you down. So that you will not see that you deserve better. Honey, my mom made it on a cashier's salary with 3 teenage kids. You can do it on a waitress's salary for yourself. This marriage was dead in the water from day 1. Get away from it. Get a house and a roommate. You can do it. In order for your marriage to work you have both got to try at it. You both have to give 100%. Not 50/50. Who wants only half of their spouse's love and affection??? It's obvious that you don't love yourself and that being said you can not love your husband without loving yourself. Fix that relationship first. Focus on you for a while. Then you will know what you can offer to a relationship with another person.
2016-05-23 00:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go nowhere in public with him or to family functions since he humiliates you in front of people. You're not a child. I don't see why he just doesn't wait until you two are alone and discuss what's bothering him. That's what normal adults do. You should tell him how you feel. Until then, I wouldn't go nowhere with him unless you like being made a fool of. I see he clearly doesn't respect you - maybe he needs to take anger management.
2006-12-16 11:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by dip_n_cecilia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get all the attention and showin your friends that he wears the boots in the family .
It is best to either change the subject when he does this or walk away.
Do not tolerate such negative attitude.
He is only embarrassing himself which is very immature.
2006-12-16 11:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and go home even if you have to call a cab. Do this every time he does this to you until he learns to behave in public. He will get the picture.
2006-12-16 11:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take him to a family counselor, where you can sit down and tell him how much this bothers you. The counselor should suggest anger management thereapy to your husband. You need to be strong and demand he follow through with therapy.
2006-12-16 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by KM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't. Only HE can control himself. makes me wonder how badly he treats you at home. Don't be afraid to get help or get out if things are bad. Take care.
2006-12-16 11:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that he is trying to control YOU. His behavior is the first step towards being abusive. My advice is that he seek counseling NOW before it escalates in to him beating on you later.
2006-12-16 11:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband how bad it makes you feel when he humiliates you in public. If he really loves you, he'll stop.
2006-12-16 11:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a scene.Yell and shout back at him..he wont do it again.Teach him that 2 can play the same game.
2006-12-16 11:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋