My ex is getting married and it's not like we ended on bad terms, we just grew apart. I don't really think I have any feelings for her anymore because I haven't seen her in about a year and a half and its hard to have feelings for someone when you don't see them and aren't together. I'm glad that she is happy and I have nothing against the guy but I think she might be moving too fast. I think I also might have some hope that maybe someday we would have gotten back together if not in the near future. Do you think I should say something? If so, what?
2006-12-16 10:43:42 · 15 answers · asked by Well hello there... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your input will cause changes...If you are Not prepared to follow thru just let her move on with her life. She has a right to find someone that's willing to make a life with her. You yourself admitted that the feelings were not enough to stay together so why revisit the relationship, unless you are going to change about her: Let her be...
2006-12-16 10:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her speak up now, then let her decide she will know whats right for her. She might not know how you feel, and if she already does and she still wants to marry him,l et it go and try to move on. It is hard but you can not live in the past.
2006-12-16 19:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by dontknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time for saying something has passed and so has your life with this woman. She has moved on and you would be wise to do the same. There is someone out there waiting for you but you will never find her if you keep searching in the past.
2006-12-16 18:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by gtahvfaith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say, "Self - You've sat in the dugout for over a year. What is with this 'someday' back in the game line? She's a player in a different league now. Back off and back down."
2006-12-16 18:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never easy to go back into the past, and always hurtful to see our ex remarry, as it usually means there is no chance for reconciliation. perhaps u do have some regrets, or unfinished business, but let it alone, u never told her how u felt so she moved on and found someone else.sounds like it is too late.
2006-12-16 18:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you do still like her you just don't want to admit it. but since you said you didn't move on with your life and let her move on with hers. who knows, she may like you still but afraid to say something because she's getting married to this other guy. but if you dont have feelings for her anymore and just want to tell her she's moving too fast, keep that to yourself. she knows what she's doing with her life. there's nothing wrong with still caring but let her decide she's moving too fast because telling her that is going to make her angry and she may think you're tryna still her away from her fiancee. sometimes caring for someone means letting them go.
2006-12-16 18:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should say any thing at all. what right do you think you have to say any thing to her in the first place? she is your ex the key word being ex. stay out of it, beside any thing you say at this point would only make it seem as if your jealous.move on.
2006-12-16 18:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No say nothing. Move on with your life. It is over between you two.
2006-12-16 19:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't say a word, she is an adult and knows what she must do. I think you should say something ONLY IF SHE ASKS YOU FOR YOUR OPINION- and only then.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-16 18:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Taz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why havent you said anything before.
and if it wasnt on bad terms....you have a chance
2006-12-16 18:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by tasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋