What do i do about bullies!!!!!!!????!?

Question

How do i stand up to a bully? It's not necessarily this one person that I am worried about. I am just wondering about in general. I am a very outgoing, not really the typical victim of bullying, but im short in 8th grade. I don't know how to deal with bullies in general. People tell me to tell a teacher, to avoid the situation, or just stand up to the bully. I dont know what to do! I don't want to be picked on 4 the rest of my life! I also dont want my a.s.s kicked. HELP PLEASE!

Answer 1

Bullies can show up at the school, the mall, the family reunion, the workplace, anywhere and at any age. There is a type of energy about a bully that is attracted to vulnerability. As much as we may not want to investigate the unpleasant situations in life, we really need to be our own detective and guidance counselor - -for our own good. What we resist will persist and what we attract is showing up for a reason. If someone is pushing your buttons it's time to see it as an indicator and something to take a look at within yourself. What is happening outside of ourselves is showing us the way. It's not always fun but I promise that the more you see life's experiences as a mirror for personal growth, the stronger and wiser you will be. As we transmute the victim or bully scenarios and remember our own mastery and self worth, these things will eventually fade and become non-existant. Explore your greatness and nurture the self. The more genuine self esteem and self worth you possess, the attraction for bullies will diminish...

Answer 2

To be honest I was bullied around when I was in school. I would come home from school with black eyes, bruises on my arms and even once was pushed against a electric fence.

For bullies their is no easy answer. Physical pain cannot be tolerated, on the other hand the emotional pain is just as hard to heal.

If their is violence involved, do not hesitate to speak up to the people you trust. When the so called "poke fun at" starts what worked with me was traveling with friends with a secret tape recorder and send the recording to his or her parents. But the most important thing is to find your own voice. Do not be afraid to speak up.

By the way, I am 5 foot 4 so I have my share of jokes. Take care.

Answer 3

There are all kinds of bullies in this world...........They are the ones with the problem. I have found when I act so stupid like I don't know they are trying to bully me they give up...........'cause it's no fun when you won't participate with them.
My ex husband tried to bully me. He quit as soon as I jacked his jaw and sent him flying backwards over the coffee table and back on to the couch. I don't condone violence, sometimes though it's all some people understand..........I guess that is the EX part.

Good luck and remember " I am worth more , I deserve more, I want more "

Answer 4

Well, just act tough. Scare them away. When they say something like, "you're ugly" just be like "so" in a jokingly way. Even if you know it's not true, it just basically shows them that you don't care.

And when they feel like you don't care they'll just go away. If they attempt to hurt you then that's when you have to tell someone. If they break bones of your body or do anything to you that requires medical attention then you can sue the pants of them. I'm sure you'd like your bones to stay where they are though.

Answer 5

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Carry a concealed tape recorder to record his threats. Once done, gather up all of your courage, and with all your strength, hit him straight on the nose. The sight of his own blood may make him nervous. And very likely, bullying will stop. When I was a kid, that's what I did. No body bothered me thereafter.

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Answer 6

bullies are just friends that make fun of you and are mean to you all the time. but really, the thing that always works for me is if its a stupid insult, just say, aaaaw, thats the nicest thing youve ever said to me(and they get really weirded out, and just give up). another thing that works, is (insert bullys name here) i understand that you have problems and you feel the need to take them out on me. its okay, i understand. its sooooooooo funny to see their faces when you say things like this.

Answer 7

i know this girl who is 5' 10 and 12 years old. she thinks that she can just pick on people. (she looks like a full grown woman if you know what i mean). if she disrespects me, i will just express to her what i am really feeling. bullies have no right to do what they are doing to people.

Look at them as you may look at yourself. (as equals)You are both equal, so tell 'em what you feel.

Answer 8

Stand up to them, tell them its not alright to mess with you. Tell a teacher and make a report of each incident. If it was me, get a bigger friend to kick the bullies *** off of schoolgrounds (I was usually the "bigger friend" to my friends).